If an older guy was looking for a younger lady hes a pervert
If the same lady is looking for an older guy she is looking for a father figure
and both over 18
isn't that the good old double standard
2006-08-06 20:30:33 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
isn't that a double standard????
2006-08-06 20:36:37 · update #1
Society does set it's standards, and sometimes they are double standards and can be different in different parts of the country. In relationships involving adults, I say live and let live. What ever makes you happy. Life is way too short to worry about what other people think!!
2006-08-06 20:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Standards are not fair always. Rules are there for a purpose though, and sometimes relationships do not conform to the rules.
I would say if you are looking for someone who is very distant from your age, younger OR older, then perhaps your motives should be examined. However, if you MEET someone of a vastly different age and find you truly love one another, then this might be a case when rules could be broken.
2006-08-07 03:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. That is just the way it's been for so long. But times are changing. Look at the rich old guys. they are making
it more acceptable. But then the girl is said to be a gold digger.
I say fall in love and then find out how old they are.
2006-08-07 03:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like trouble to me. I guess it would depend on age difference and maturity.
2006-08-07 03:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by jen12121980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you pondering about 18 year olds already get you in trouble?
2006-08-07 03:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....it's always been that way. I think that once your eighteen it really shouldn't matter. You love who you love, ya know?
2006-08-07 03:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she's looking for big money.
2006-08-07 03:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell are you saying
2006-08-07 03:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by triumph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the question is..........????
2006-08-07 03:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋