Why do women wearing pushup bras get offended when we look?

Question

Aren't they getting the results they were looking for? If she wears a push up bra to improve her cleavage, and I look at them, she gets offended. Ladies, why? Not a smarta$$ question, really wondering. Honest input requested.

Answer 1

they want to show off their sexuality but still expect decency from men. we turn into animals the second we see breasts lol.

Answer 2

Look, don't stare. Then, after a BRIEF look, smile into her eyes and say, "You're looking especially nice today." That's if you KNOW the woman, and if you are trying to get cozy with her. If it's a business setting, don't comment unless you also have a personal relationship with her.
I wear a pushup bra cos my guy likes the way I look in them, and I want HIM to look, and to smile and say that to me. I'm not especially interested in what random men think. An appreciative glance and a smile are ok. Leering is creepy. Also, I don't walk around with half my breasts exposed, just a little cleavage, and some serious support so I look "perky".

Answer 3

Well, lets face the facts- women wear push up bras to attract the opposite sex. Buttttt, if they DIDNT get offended when they are stared at, they would be taken as whores. And no one wants to be a whore. So of course they act "offended", but your doing just what they expected. Unless they're that oblivious, but until I fid someone that oblivious I refuse to demote women to that extent.

Answer 4

Depends on the look. A woman can feel if she's being sexually harassed or sincerely appreciated. When, I wear a push-up bra, I know, guys will look (shocks, even if i didn't, they still do) point is, check the look that you're giving our luscious globes, they might be a tad offending, the look can say "gimme some of that *squeeze * squeeze" or "wow"

Answer 5

Honesty ,Yes some women like to show off and expect great results.But when they see a nasty looking man or just not interested in that man they get ofended.If he is cute or like what they see they like being looked at trust me all women are all difrent on some litle things we are all the same.That is all women

Answer 6

I don't get offended.

My guess would be - we didn't expect that the outcome of our efforts would bring results so fruitful. I.e. we didn't anticipate to get THAT MUCH attention.

Yeah, when someone looks - it's nice. When someone stares and turns his head and hesitates as he walks - makes me a bit uncomfortable.

Just like in giving a compliment, one can go a bit overboard. Same here: when you look at us, you are giving a compliment with your eyes. Don't make it to sausy, please.

Answer 7

Wow, no longer situation-free question, i comprehend if a woman has a lovable face and a effective character i do no longer care approximately her breast length. the adult males which you will allure to from the padded bras are no longer likely the type you should hold close out with interior the 1st place.

Answer 8

I have no idea, why women try to look so sexy, and then when you perve at them, they get upset, what is the matter with them, if they dont want to be looked at, they should wear clothes like the muslim women do.

Answer 9

Because women are psycho. they want to be respected for their brains, treated with equality, yet they want to dress like whores too. they only get offended when the person admiring them is below their standards.

Answer 10

it's not really that we don't WANT you to look (of COURSE we do - we wear it to get noticed), but we want it to be subtle. i personally hate it when guys look at my body but not really pay attention when i talk. don't let girls catch you staring at their boobs; push-up bras help some girls feel better about themselves, but it's not supposed to be the thing that attracts guys.