I ran back into a girl who is a family/childhood friend back in june at a couple parties and all. It was nice we talked etc, but I never managed to get her number. It's funny because I remember when she was around 4 and I was like 6 and she would always wanted to play and was always hugging me and all. Needless to say we aren't kids anymore (I'm 20 and she's 18) but she is really gorgeous and just stole my heart. Something happened this week where it just sort of hit me, and I realized how much I like this girl and all. It's not like I know her all that well, but she seems sweet and to me she just represents a time in my life when I was younger, the world was in front of me, and things were easier. I didn't have her number or know anyone who does so the only way to contact her that I have is through myspace, and I already emailed her once just sort of sparking convo, telling her that I thought she was an interesting girl etc etc and i want to talk to her when I go back to school...
2006-08-06 20:17:47 · 8 answers · asked by ev 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when I go back to school in the upcoming week and I asked for her number. She wrote a long letter back that was really nice and friendly etc, but instead of her number she gave me her screen name so I don't really know what to make of it especially since I have yet to her online. The big thing is that I go back to school tomorrow on Tuesday and I recently learned that she is going to be doing a guitar open mic sort of thing at starbucks on monday (today) and I'm having thoughts about just going and trying to talk to her or I dunno something. I know that it could be considered stalking and that my life isn't some sort of movie, but since there's a good chance i may not see her for like 6 months i dont know what to do. sometimes i just think with my heart and not my head and i think it gets me into trouble. i dunno
2006-08-06 20:24:10 · update #1
it's not like i just like what she represents. i mean we both just sort of relate and laugh about growing up as a kids, and from what i know of her i really like. i just don't want to screw anything, but at the same time i don't want to lament and just remove myself.
2006-08-06 20:27:28 · update #2
when you e-mail her next time ask her out. What do you have to loose? sounds like she is a wonderful person. You connected with her again for some reason. If you are still thinking about her, then definitely try to get her number and talk to her. Who knows? This could be the girl of your dreams. Or maybe you are to be in her life for a purpose...you'll never know unitl you pursue this. And I have a feeling that you will never ever really forget. If you don't see where this can go, you will have regrets. Get creative. There are ways to find people. Good luck.
2006-08-06 20:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by sleepless in the ATL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know her really well before you go and tell her you're "taken with her" or something. Figure out if you like her, as a person, or the illusion of her and what she represents. Take care and good luck!
2006-08-07 03:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by someone in the world 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her much dont hesitate to know all the information you need to get closer to her. If she is the one who you looking for dont waste time as I did once. Remember this pal what if the girl likes you and deep inside her she wants you to make friends with her and court her. Just do your best and PRAY He will help you if the girl is really is for you.
2006-08-07 03:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by gen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should go to her guitar thing ... it'll be the only time u see her in 6 months, so you should go, i would... and why dont u try giving her ur number and tell her to call u wenever she needs someone to talk to, that might help. but dont pressure her!
2006-08-07 03:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a long story but with a simple answer.JUST TELL HER HOW U FEEL NOW BEFORE U LOSE THE BEST THING U CUD EVER HAVE. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-07 03:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by swit lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all learn precis writting and secondly PROPOSE her.
Thanx
2006-08-07 03:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like her for who she is (it seems that you don't know her THAT well because you don't even have her #), or for what she represents? you should get that straight first.
2006-08-07 03:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by dreamnnsomniac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just want to say..........before you do anything, contact her or anything.......think first about it, what will you do with her? Don't hurt her heart.
2006-08-07 03:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by cherry blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋