ok...there is a guy i went out with him before..but he has a girlfriend..and he saids he still has feelings for me..and he knows that i like him and we always hang out at his house when there isn't anybody there and tomorrow he wants to play a game where we take off our shirts and then he wants me to give him a hj..and i was like that would be cheating and he said didn't say anything..and he wants me to really do this i want to do it but i know its not right but i REALLY want to..what should i do??..
2006-08-06 20:17:02 · 15 answers · asked by ambie♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and he is like my best friend!!
2006-08-06 20:39:08 · update #1
let him have the hj only if he makes you c u m via oral sex! According to Bill Clinton...."Eating ani't Cheating"
2006-08-06 20:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself "Do I want to degrade and belittle myself by being his slut?" "If he really cares about me so much why is he still with his girlfriend?" "Is he using me for sex?" "Is the only reason he using me because he respects his girlfriend and she is not putting out?" "Is he going to dump me like a piece of trash after he gets tired of me?" Only you can answer the first question. As an adult who has experienced things in life, allow me to answer the remaining questions for you. The reason he is still with his girlfriend is because she is the one he really cares about, not you. Is he trying to use you for sex? You better believe he is and you are stupid if you let him. Is he using you because his girlfriend is not putting out and he respects her. Yup. He plans on using for his own personal whore. He likes you but he doesn't respect you. (There is a difference.) In the end is he going to dump you like a piece of trash? Yes. In the end you are going to be the one left out in the cold feeling like a fool. I was a teenager once. I have been there and I have done that. The thing about self respect is, once you lose it, you can never get it back. Now I want you to ask yourself again. "What should I do?" I think deep down in your heart you already know the answer.
2006-08-07 03:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is your head?? He is a low life and you could do better!! The only feelings he has for you is below his belt buckle! All guys have three heads, the one on thier shouders;below the belt and thier big toes! And honey if he wants to play doctor be smart and tell him to do it with some one else!
2006-08-07 03:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by skyexs2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating over u beleive me i m a guy and i know all guys very well i dnt know who r u? but beleive me dear he is a cheater who wants jst physical satisfaction from u nthng else i hope when u will take a decision u will thnk about everythng abt u abt ur faimly. i dnt thnk so that u want
because of u ur faimly suffer.
2006-08-07 03:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by jst_friends_4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he ever told you he loved you! girl you don't know he could be doing the same thing he doing with you, with another girl and mabe more than that , you need to think about this very hard , you could just be a booty call to him. how would you fill if you were his girlfriend and he did this with another girl . it wouldn't fill to good. tell him if he really love you to break up with his girl friend and get with you " for real"
2006-08-07 03:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by veronica b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just using you cause he knows you like him...he cant have his cake and eat it too!! He has a girlfriend that can do that nasty stuff with him. Don't do anything with him unless he leaves his girlfriend! He's just using you for pleasure...his own.
2006-08-07 03:26:49 · answer #6 · answered by bburgandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you know that he is only attracted to you sexually and nothing more. he already has a girlfriend for all that relationship stuff. if you give in and go for it. leave your feeling at the door, cos you will only get hurt.
2006-08-07 03:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think! This is what you should do. Do you want to be like this all your life? do you? this is going to leave a mark on your way of doing things for the rest of your life..but i think you did it already...i smell you are a little tricky..gotcha!
2006-08-07 03:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by luv_mornings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta agree with Jenna, you do this once, and he'll be pick'n your *** to it more and more, until it ain't no hand job anymore. And on top of everything else, you can guarantee he is going to go to great lenghts to avoid you after wards. Until next time......
2006-08-07 03:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not trying 2 b mean but he could b using u. DONT DO IT. this could start some big drama.
2006-08-07 03:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋