2006-08-06 19:52:52 · 10 answers · asked by heatha4eva 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is probably because there is something in common about the guys that you date. Perhaps they seem more dangerous. Perhaps they seem like risk takers and they excite you. You need to take inventory of what you really want in a relationship.
Think of it like buying a car. If money was no object, what kind of car would you buy? What color(s) would it be? What features and options would you want in it?
Now take that same line of planning and apply it to the guys you date. What are the superficial qualities you are looking for ... Taller than you? Buff? Muscular?... What important qualities are you looking for? Honesty? Caring? Affectionate? Intelligent?... What qualities are you NOT willing to accept? Dishonesty? Disloyalty? Abusive behavior?
Once you have your guidelines, date guys who seem to fit those guidelines. Just as you probably would not settle for a 1994 Kia if money was no object, don't settle for less than you deserve. Keep your eyes open as you date and be prepared to admit that the man you are dating is not your ideal mate if he has negative qualities that you are not willing to put up with. As you focus on what you are willing to accept and what you are not willing to accept, you will have an easier time finding the many good guys out there who would love to treat you right.
One obvious side note to this. You need to be likeable to. As long as you are a good person with a good personality, you will find love and happiness.
All the best to you!
2006-08-06 20:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try me. as simple and bold as that. My name is MAN, GENTLE MAN. By the way how many guys u have dated. I know there are many good men out here like me. What do you say fellas?
Don't worry u will really find one good man( keep searching. Don't use GOOGLE for it by the way).
Keep smiling :-) Your problem doesn't seem that complicated s it sound.
2006-08-06 20:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by gentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-08-06 20:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by kunkko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you date what you are looking for..
I bet you go for looks and don't get time to get to know them.
there are alot of nice guys out there. They are not all mister super hot but they are mister super nice.
find some that you could go out with if you were blind and only could tell by the voice and deeds amazing what you can find if you close your eyes and open your heart
2006-08-06 19:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you define "good men" how old are you? maybe "your looking for love in all the wrong places"!! yes their really is "good men" out their... the question is" are their any good women out their for us good men"?
2006-08-06 20:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do lie in their lifetime. take that! my boss ended up oldmaid looking for good guys.
2006-08-06 20:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say me but there is a slim chance that you live in palmedale.
2006-08-06 19:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by freetworhyme03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope so and if you find any hunny ley me know, cause I haven't found one yet!
2006-08-06 19:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Dawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are hard to come by
2006-08-06 20:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by WIZZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am.
2006-08-06 19:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋