2006-08-06 19:51:43 · 28 answers · asked by sexzdambitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, whats your rush?
2006-08-06 19:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl now u know right from wrong , and with all the std`s floating around here u should want to wait until after your no.1 out of college with an degree and no.2 married I'm gonna tell you like i tell my own daughter your gonna be a adult a lot longer then being a child so enjoy your childhood as long as u can becuz once u cross that line of sex there`s alot more things to deal with , and at the age of 14 i don't think your mentally ready sweetie.
God Bless
2006-08-07 03:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by miss toya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No. No. This is what you should be thinking about:
Think about the diseases you could get that might kill you or make you sick for a very long time or keep you from eventually having sex with someone you really love. Also think about getting pregnant, the pain of giving birth, changing dirty smelly diapers and throw-up for several years and not being able to go out anytime you want because you now have this child that is your responsibility forever !!!!!
You should be thinking about getting ready for going back to school, buying new supplies and getting a new pair of shoes ... not about whether you are going to be missing your period next month.
2006-08-07 03:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell nooooo!!! You can't just say " I think I want to have sex " and go do it . What are you crazy. There is a lot of responsibilities that come with that. You kids think sex is that easy. Well it is not!!!!!I have to admit it feels good but you are only 14. You are not ready. Have you tought about the consequences like what ifs....for example what if you get an STD or pregnant. What about the guy you do it with just dumps you for another. There is alot to think of here. You are still pretty young. And whatever we say is not going to hold you back except yourself. How much do you respect yourself???Anyways what ever your choice is take care .But talk to someone you trust. I know it's hard to talk to parents because we don't want to know about our kids been sexually active or we are just embarrass as you are to talk about that topic. But I think you should wait. And remember that sex is not only about your needs it is also about LOVE. Being with someone you are in love with. That's my opinion. Good luck!!!!
2006-08-07 03:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by MARS227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you shouldn't have sex. You are fourteen! What makes you think that sex is something to be taken so lightly. If you are asking the question, you already don't feel comfortable with the decision to have sex. When you are older, and with someone you truly love, you won't be hesitant. You will feel secure, safe and mature about your decision when you are an appropriate age and with the right person. Give it some time, don't rush it, don't try and grow up so soon. You'll get there soon enough, and then the question won't be should you, it will be is he/she worthy of you.
2006-08-07 02:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by MegMaher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really did want to have sex you wouldn't ask other people what they thought. My advice, wait. Seriously, at your age it's not like........"Oh, I think I am going to go out and have sex tomorrow". I had sex at your age for the first time, but we were together for quite a while before hand and then on and off for about 3-5 years afterward. Don't make any hasty decisions. Enjoy your life, don't wish it away.
2006-08-07 02:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think if u really wanted to have sex u wouldnt be askin this question, right? so i think that ur still unsure, and you should wait...im 17 and im still waiting lol. U might really like the guy and stuff but there will be PLENTY of other guys that u might even be more attracted to, so just wait until ur really sure that u want to do it!
Good Luck!!
2006-08-07 03:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by custom_made_mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not, if you're asking. Wait to find a guy you love, not lust for, and then consider it. There's alot of emotional attachment, that comes fwith sex, and if the guy you are having sex with doesn't share the same feelings, it can be devastating in the long run.
2006-08-07 02:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Boys want sex ay 12 but You should or wait till You are sure You are ready . There is to many Kids with Kids now Wate till You find the right one.
2006-08-07 03:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by canivieu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not have sex. You're 14. You're not ready for the possible consequences. You could get pregnant, get HIV, or get an STD. You're not ready physically or emotionally to deal with any of those things. Stop trying to grow up so fast.
2006-08-07 02:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you choose, make sure the person loves you.
You will regret it if you just have sex for the sake of having sex. You'll have lost something very special - something you will never be able to get back.
So make sure it is perfect. Make sure it is love.
There's nothing more beautiful than two virgin newly-weds on their honeymoon. Imagine what it might be like...
2006-08-07 03:12:14 · answer #11 · answered by deregulution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋