Guy problem...a little help here people!?

Question

I've known this guy since September and we've become good friends. In July, I told him that I liked him, but he didn't say"I like you too" or "I don't like you like that." This was weird because he's usually an outspoken person when it comes to saying what he's thinking. My girlfriend told me that he was calling her and asking her to dinner and saying he needed to tell her something. (this was before I told him I liked him.)We don't know what his motive was, but I thought he liked her. A couple days ago, she told him that she was with someone, and if he was asking her out date-wise, than she couldn't go.Yesterday, he asked me to hang out and he told me that he liked me too, but now is pretty far from mid-July.I can understand if he's confused, but a month? It seems like he was juggling me and my friend and didn't make a decision to like me until she turned him down.Do I still go out with him?How do I ask him in a nice way how and why he decided to like me?Or what do I do in general?

Did I mention he's known my friend since they were 10? They're 17 now. To clarify, when I said I liked him, I meant so much to actually go out with him.

Umm...did I meantion he already asked me out twice in the past and I turned him down? Parental issues there, but that's over.

Answer 1

You can imagine things and come up with several thoughts but the only way to know is ask. He could lie to you but you will have to go with you gut on that one. Tell him what is going on and ask him what the deal was. Lies are a terrible way to begin a relationship

Answer 2

Move on and get a life.
Dont get so hung up with a guy that doesn't like you.
Don't expect getting "I like you too" reply when you confess to a guy. If he don't feel it in the start, he never will.

You are no more of a challenge if you confessed to him.
Guys love challenges, even if you're something at "not-his-type", you can still spark ATTRACTION and make him FEEL it.
By teasing him, being a challenge, funny, have a lot of self-respect, you will have a SUCCESS in terms of MAN and DATING.
Try the net, i heard there is a guy named ... carter? Author of the ebook "Find him and Keep Him?" Something like that...

He will help you big time.
cheers!

Answer 3

Hmm.. It seems to me that he wanted to go for ur girlfriend and when she told him she is with someone he comes back to you because he knows he wont turn him down..
My opinion: dont go out with him.
He doesnt really like you , he's just coming to you because you like him until he finds soeone else.. Play it cool now and dont tell him u like him.. just wait to see what he's gonna do.. just be a friend for now and nothing more.. Make him believe that you are not really interested to him and that you also talk with someone else.. dont mention anything about liking him and being together.. wait for him. If he does or say something about ur relationship and stuff then ask him clear what he wants from you.. If he still tells you he likes you and doesnt find another girl then he probably realised he likes you in fact..Just be yourself and dont give him many hopes.. You may like him but he needs to like you truly as well.. If he comes after you when u kinda turn him down too then he probably does like you..if not , then he's not worth it and you deserve someone better..

Answer 4

Z realnością cięć jest tak, że każde cięcie jest realne, jeśli jest w stanie uszkodzić i zabić...
Po pierwsze widziałem program, jak zawodowy basebolista ciął kataną namoczone maty, tak jak bije się kijem basebolowym i szły jak papier, więc przy cięciu w ciało ludzkie też będzie to skuteczne.
Poza tym ze swojego doświadczenia wiem, że nawet tępym iaito można ciąć rzeczy z rewelacyjną wręcz skutecznością (niesety te próby odbywały się zwykle wbrew mojej woli i przez to mam część sprzętów domowych nie nadających się do użytku)...
Tak oto zciołem 3 razy żerandol i lampę, przeciąłem bambusowe krzesło i solidne dębowe drzwi. Mając ostrą katanę, a nie nieostre iaito uważam, że nie nastręczało by mi większych problemów przecięcie człowieka, czy odcięcie mu jakiejkolwiek kończyny. Dlatego uważam, że o realności cięcia możemy mówić jedynie gdy jest się w stanie dosięgnąć naszego przeciwnika w zamierzony przez nas obszar jego ciała, gdyż po tym fakcie będzie on martwy, okaleczony, bądź też niezdolny do dalszej walki

Answer 5

If he liked you, it wouldn't take him days or weeks to tell you. The whole asking your friend out thing is a little shady as well. I think he was trying to date your friend and went with you when she said no. Keep him as a friend. Not worth wrecking a friendship with a guy who has no clue what he wants.

Answer 6

Here's the Problem: Saying "I like you" to a guy is like saying "Good Job." It can mean a HUNDRED THOUSAND things to someone and they don't want to feel like a fool if they misinterpret you. you need to be ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY CLEAR with us guys otherwise it could lead to an enbarassing or humiliating situation. ALWAYS communicate without using leading statements or unclear phrases.

You'll thank me later.

Answer 7

Yep, it sounds like he didn't decide for you until he saw that your friend was unavailable. I don't see anything wrong with that unless your ego is fragile. You could still go out with him. Who knows, you two might really hit it off well.

Answer 8

stay away 4m him.he is a big ****.initially he made frenz wid u and tried his hand with ur frend and wen she refused he approached u .smart guy,stay away.he is a very clever person and if sum how u gets involved wid him u wud pay heavily sum day.tak cr

Answer 9

been there before your are the second choice and if your friend ever becomes available he will dump you and chase her or cheat on you to get her....

Answer 10

well when sumone asks me out i wait for a while and ten ask them out...its a thing