My ex pursued me to have a sex only relationship only because neither of us want to date right now. We ended on good terms so I agreed. The only stipulation was not to be active or involved with anyone else without telling the other. I went to his house one night a little early and some chic was in his front yard rubbing his back. After she left I went back and comfromted him about it. He said that she was the chic that is renting his trailer at the time. I spending the night at a friends place who lives right behind him that night. Well she came back and stayed all night. The next day I asked why she was there all night. He said they were hanging out and it got late and she slept on the couch. What ever! My friend said she has been there most nights. He still sticks to his story. I dont speak to him anymore but am feelin salty because he played me. I want to letting the chic know that we were sexually involve and asking her if that is how things are woth her too, when i see her again.
2006-08-06 19:42:22 · 8 answers · asked by adyafterday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let it go-you could do yourself and her a big favor and talk to her. This can prevent the both of you from contracting any STD's he may have spread. Also-you never know, she may become a great gal pal and want to get back at him for playing the both of you!
2006-08-06 19:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't romantically involved with the guy, why get so upset. Sounds like you have started to have feelings for him, and are now interested in more than just a little fling. He clearly did not keep his word about seeing only you. Walk away, forget about the guy and move on. Why cause any problems with the girl that he was involved with. She didn't do anything to you, after all she did not break the promise, he did. Don't give the guy a big ego by acting jealous. You said you don't speak to him anymore, good. That is one promise you should make to yourself. Next time, have some self-respect, and save the intimacy for someone you truly care about.
2006-08-07 02:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by MegMaher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look first of all being a woman is not easy.Why because we just get to atached to the one person we have gotten intimate for men it does not work that way.You just have to face it you care for him and want to have something with him. More than just sex. You really don't have a right to accuse him .You both agreed on a decition .One thing I can tell you sex leads to have feelings . Be strong plus not any girl will rub a mans back. He is playing you dirty .Remember they tend to stick with a story get cought and still say the same story they tend to prove you wrong but always pay atention to your gut its always 100% right.Good luck and stay strong girl
2006-08-07 02:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by shasilk67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go or things could get ugly. you both stated that the relationship was only sexual implying that you would leave your feeling at the door. reacting the way you are is girlfriend behaviour. and im guessing you didnt want to be his girlfriend. also, he is a guy! he will lie to you and tell you what he thinks you want to hear incase it stops the sex he gets from you. cut him off now, he has a new girl for that.
2006-08-07 02:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you expect when you have a relationhsip based only on sex?
2006-08-07 02:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go...and someday you will find a much better partner....it's good that you know who he is before getting married to him....
2006-08-07 02:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will just ruin yrself,since the thingsu wish to change in yr favour will does't change.
2006-08-07 02:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are already moving on i say let it go... if you really wanna tell her.. then go ahead and ask her.
2006-08-07 02:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋