why do guys say that their going to do something with you and then flake on you ... with no call nor show up or anything... I swear it gets so fusterating at times... I'm about to give up on guys compeletly.... and just be single..... ?
can anyone explain this to me ?
2006-08-06 19:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lmao what you guys aren't seeing is that we've been dating for awhile lol he wrks to damn much lol
2006-08-06 19:42:29 · update #1
Don't give up on guys... but we are dogs a lot of the time and what it comes down to is meeting a guy at a time in his life he his done playing games. Some its age 20 some its age 40.
Here is a GREAT Hint. You meet the best people in lines while you are waiting in the line yourself. A great place to start up a conversation. Both of you are just standing there waiting and you can just talk. BUT make sure you either have a card or a pen and something to write on with you. Plan ahead and when you meet someone and seem to be hitting it off then tell them that you enjoy talking with them and wish you could talk again sometime. Either get their number or give yours but don't be offended if they don't call just keep meeting people in line.
Remember sometimes people go to places with other people that they would not normally go so they feel a little uncomfortable and would love someone to talk with...
Oddly enough going to the horse races has TONS of guys that are there with friends and they are in line and if you ask them how to bet they will start talking right away...
... Weddings ... graduations... Outdoor Food Events...
Give it a try you will meet someone... probably lots of people.
You can check out my 360 site if you like and give me a note... click on the skull, which by-the-way is because I think it is a cool photo not that I like skulls... I am a Metal Artist and that was my dream to do when I turned 40 so I did it this year. Having fun !
2006-08-06 19:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by CTM 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's because guys enjoy their freedom. They don't like to be boxed in or controlled. You have to realize it's often the guy that has to pay for the meal, the movie, the entertainment, and if that's not the case then they have to pay for themself in order to spend time with you. Many guys have to evaluate whether spending that kind of money to spend time going out somewhere is practical and often it's not. It would be easier to have someone hang out for a bit maybe, watch a movie at the house or play an online game - something that doesn't cost any money (or something they've already paid for).
You also need to evaluate how well you "click" with the guy. Maybe you rub him the wrong way after a while or you rub him the wrong way. Maybe you seem too needy, or there is some other defect in your character that guys notice.
Many times guys get used to being on their own and it becomes difficult to plan days being around someone else. Easier sometimes to plan a day without worrying how someone else will be concerned for how it is planned.
2006-08-06 19:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are in their own selfish world only worried about where their next fun, meal, or video game is going to come from. Make a life with your family and friends and don't let him think that you are willing to wait around until he decides what his selfish little mind has on the agenda for the day. He can only think that you are waiting around for him if you let him think that. Make your plans and let him sit around and wait for you. Then he will grow up to make his plans ahead of time and stick to them.
2006-08-06 19:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy does this to you, give up on him cos he doesnt like you. a guys biggest fear is truthfully letting a girl kno that he is not interested or attracted to her, not showing up was his way of doing so. hopefully it would annoy you and get you angry with him and not call him. for him its likes, good i git rid of her. sorry but its the truth. you deserve better then being played around like this
2006-08-06 19:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety this bcoz its there i9nherent nature.they say sumthng to plz us and then 4gets it soon wen gets involved in sum work but v (4m venus)leave everythng aside and day dream about them.its none of our fault.its just the way god has creatd us.go and grab the book_men are 4m mars and women r 4m venus
2006-08-06 19:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a top priority to them........in other word they aren't really all that interest. At least not tenough to care if they follow through on something or not!
2006-08-06 19:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like more self confidence girls and have good personality, and to be cute.
You are cute , so there is some thing you have to think of it about your personality .
Best wishes
2006-08-06 19:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't know how to say NO to you, so they tell you what you want to hear, and disappoint you in the long run.
2006-08-06 19:34:05 · answer #8 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's easy one word JERKS
2006-08-06 19:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to say
2006-08-06 20:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by balasubramanian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋