2006-08-06 19:27:08 · 34 answers · asked by sexzdambitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are scared at all, don't go there. If you're not ready to have a baby, you're not ready for sex. Your virginity is a precious thing that no one should force you to give up. If he's pressuring you beyond your comfort level, rethink the relationship.
2006-08-06 19:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well Im 14 Also And My Bf ASked Me To Have Sex With Him... I Was Scared And So I Didnt...And He Respected Me For Not Wanting To....And I CAme To The Conclusion That If Ur Scared To U Shouldnt And He Should Respect Ur Decision Or He's NOt Right For YOu If He Truley Loved U He Wouldnt Try To Force U To Do ANything And He Would Respect You Decision..I Guy Shouldnt Stop Loving You Because u Wont HAve Sex With Him If HE Does Than He Never Really Loved You He Only Wanted To Get In UR PAnts So Dont Do It There Is A Reason UR Scared
2006-08-06 19:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by sftball_chick_1011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT. Do not do it. You are still incredibly young, it would belike giving a 10 year old a driver's license. someone will get hurt.
Your body is too young, too. It's not ready for sex yet.
Dont let your boyfriend pressure you into doing it. he's curious as to what it feels like if he hasn't done it yet, but if he has, he's just looking for some one to get off on.
You are very right to be scared. Sex at a young age (16 or younger) is very painful, depending on the guy's size.
DO NOT let him pressure you. if you feel like you're not ready, dont do it. and think about any consequences:
pregnancy
your parents finding out, and depending on how strict they are, there are more consequences beyond that.
STD's are a possibility
the guy telling all of his friends he got you in the sack then you being ridiculed all through school.
and there are even more!
But if you do have sex with him, just be careful, and use protection!
2006-08-06 19:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready to have sex. Tell your boyfriend that if he cared more about you and less about his testosterone he never would have asked you in the first place. You are too young. You have no idea of the complications this will add to your life. There are too many dangerous diseases out there and if you get pregnant (a real possibility) how on earth are you going to take care of a child, finish school, and grow up to be a contributing member of your community. No sex!!!!!!!!!!!! AND tell him to stop pressuring you to do something that scares you and that you don't want to do.
2006-08-06 19:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah your 14, you have so much more to go thru, let everything else happen before you lose the one thing that is yours and no one else's.
You will regret it
You will not enjoy it, it will hurt
He will leave you and tell his friends that ur a s1ut
He will be right to say that
Wake up, it will not make him love you, the relationship that you are in with him is going nowhere as you are 14 years old and not even an adult yet. Please dont sleep with him.
2006-08-06 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your scared then your not ready... and you definatly should wait... and if sex scares you, then just think about being pregnant.. if you want to only because bf might get mad or break up with you, then don't...If he really cares about you, he will wait..and if he doesn't you are better off without him... I wish I had took my own advice when i was your age... would have saved me alot of pain and regrets....
2006-08-06 19:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Shonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say it. If you really love him go for it. But I know how you feel. I'm 14 as well. But do it safe if you do. If you're "kinda scared'' don't wait until you fully ready.
2006-08-06 19:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sky Rolls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk.
The longer you wait for sex the better it will be - and the happier you will be too.
Imagine that you do have sex with him then you have to tell your parents that you are pregnant. How will you feel having to tell your mom and dad that you are 14 and going to have a baby?
Drop him and smile. Do this for yourself and be proud of yourself.
2006-08-06 19:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Wildflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your virginity, just because your bf is asking for it. Don't lose your virginity at this young age. Its precious and hold it for the right guy( i am not saying that your current bf is wrong one, but u r very young to find it out)
2006-08-06 19:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by gentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all horn dogs hon! Save your self for something very special...for someone special. One day you will look back and think to your self. "Why did I just want to do that?" It's not all it's cracked up to be anyway, unless there is someone very special you can share it with...and I mean VERY special.
I regret my first time. And it was with the so called hottest girl in town...back in my day...anyway.
Boy if I could do it all over again!
Take care little one!
2006-08-06 19:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by sunnyboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋