Why must girls be friends first?

Question

1. Is it possible to ask a girl out if she is not your friend?

2. Why would a girl rather go out with a friend, it can only ruin the friendship.

3. What is the big deal with going on a date with a stranger in a public place? you will find out real quick if he is a freak or not.

WFT, what is the big deal with going out with someone you dont know, or getting asked out by someone you dont know?

(correct me if I am wrong) ( I am not friends with any girls, if what I say is true I am ******, or not in the literal sence)

Answer 1

Well most girls are like that becuz, they want to know they know you. And they want to know they always can talk to your friends if they thing somethings wrong. Me personally I think its a bunch a bull ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

1) Yes, but focussing on the romatic gets too involved too quick without really knowing the person. If all you want is the sex, then probably you don't care anyway.

2) A girl would rather go out with a friend because she already knows that friend so she has more trust for them in general. That typically means a lesser chance of being raped and a lesser chance of having a bad experience.

Lastly, you need to just be friendly. I know it sounds hard, but there are too many people in the world not to eventually make some friends, some of which I assure you will be female. If you are not making friends perhaps your standards are too high or perhaps you need to look for people with the same interests.

Answer 3

U can ask a girl out if she's not a friend. I, personally, prefer the boy to not be my friend. Like u said, it could ruin the friendship. It could also be awkward. But i'm young so thats how it is. When i get older i want to start building an actual relationship. Thats when i'd prefer the friend thing.

Answer 4

1. yes of course!

2. it doesnt always ruin a friendship - sometimes makes it stronger coz uve shared somethin beautiful - and it can lead to the most fulfilling romantic relationship uve eva had, coz ur friend understands u more than a girl uve just met and asked out

3. haha true - ive neva thought that much of it

i think its great to be asked out by guys ive just met and guys who are friends - there are always pluses and minuses to ANY r'ship, dont stress ova it

Answer 5

I would rather be friends first b/c i would want to see you from a different aspect not my puppy love eyes.....i would want to know that you wont hurt me, that i trust you,and see if we have anything in common, then if i think we have what it takes then yes of course i could date you,and if not then i really got a good friend out of it (though u might not feel that way) but hey i have friends

Answer 6

People have different definitions of "going out". As in Boyfriend/Girlfriend. Or just DATING?

Maybe you should as a girl on a date, to get to know each other, then from that she can decide.

But if going out is b/f-g/f, and you don't know each other.. and it doesnt work out, you break up.. Most girls want an idea of who they are going to be hanging out with if they are going to be a coupled.

Answer 7

I'm a guy but i feel it is good to be friends first. you must get to know the other person really well to be able to sustain a successful relationship. a strong friendship and breed an even stronger relationship

Answer 8

character is a would desire to for me without character i probably wouldnt be buddies with them sturdy looking buddies- if i am going be buddies with a woman then she gotta have some sturdy looking buddies to place me up on issues we've been given easy

Answer 9

only yr sincerity does matters most,be honest with the relations and feel the difference

Answer 10

Stop overthinking a lady fact. We are complex beings.