2006-08-06 18:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by myk833 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Be there for her through thick and thin. Let her know that you still love her and you are there for her no matter what. She probably isn't getting very much support from her parents right now, which is understandable. They need time to adjust to this also. I would give anything if I had just 1 Uncle out of the six I have or any relative that would have been there for me. I never got pregnant or anything, but I have been raped at a young age. No one in my family was there for me then and at the age of 45, they still aren't. My parents was but I have lost both of them. They are in a much better place than any of us. My brother, sister, no one was there for me ever. Give your niece the love and understanding she needs right now. I guarantee you that it will mean the world to her now and even more as she gets older. She will always look back on that and say my Uncle ? was there for me. You seem to be a wonderful man and I know you are probably hurting over this about your niece or you wouldn't have written in. You would be helping her by being there for her and I guarantee you she will help you also because of you being there for her. Many blessings are wished for you.
2006-08-13 16:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her when she needs a hug? Be the shoulder she needs when she cries? Tell her that eventhough you don't know what she is dealing with that you love her and support her. Tell her that things will be the way they are supposed to be, and no one has the right to force her to do anything that she doesn't want to do. Help her understand that any decision she makes will be acceptable (even if it is a hard decision and others don't think she made the right one). Tell her that it's all going to be ok
2006-08-06 19:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by missoopsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her and help her out with whatevee she needs... as normally, the immediate family is not that supportive...
And if you live in Kentucky or some parts of Tennesse... Have your shot gun ready for when Her father goes after the dad and orders the "shot gun wedding"....
2006-08-06 18:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her out. She probably is going to have a hard time with being a baby and raising a baby. Make her feel that she is not alone.
2006-08-13 11:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be supportive of her. Everyone else is probably upset enough...she needs someone to be happy for her. Afterall, when the baby comes, everyone is going to be happy anyways.
2006-08-12 16:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by epchacon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her next time think before having sex and make sure to use protection and that you are happy and that if she ever needs anything to come to you and you will help her.
2006-08-13 08:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by bdevil_cheerleader_2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chip in for the baby bed, smile and keep your opinions to yourself and let the parents handle it.
2006-08-06 18:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her whether she wants to have it and be a single mom, on the contrary get it aborted if the law permits without any third party awareness.
2006-08-13 23:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by sankaran c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her... that's the reason why she ran at you because she trust you and she needs your help man... don't ignore her. if i were you i'll adopt her for 9 months so that if the baby comes out she can return to her parents already.. just make a good excuse to her parents why you're adopting her...
2006-08-13 09:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
explain to her that its going to be hard and help her with all you can because shes most likely scared and probably doesn't have a clue about what to do
2006-08-06 21:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by cookie49504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋