The last time me and my boyfriend talked on the phone we were laughing and havin a good conversation like we always do. We even made plans to see each other the next day , because we havent see each other in a couple of days because of our work schedule. Well my boyfriend never did call me the next day when he promised he was going to pick me up in the morning...so I called him and he never answered the phone..well it has been almost 2 weeks and I still havnet heard from him , and i havent called him besides for the one time last week!! what should i do...? why is he giving me the cold shoulder!!
2006-08-06 17:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my friend seen him at a store so i know he's okay
2006-08-06 18:04:55 · update #1
he's dead.
2006-08-06 18:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he's testing you, to see how much you "love" him.
People do that sometimes. They get into this power thing and want to see how badly you want them.
Unfortuneately, I was in a very close relationship with a man. He did the same odd things. Everything would be normal and fun and then poof! He stopped calling and was unavailable and was playing hard to get. I found out later through a friend we both had in common that he was admitted to the friend that he wanted to make sure that I kept "my place" that he was the one in charge that he was the one would always keep the "upper-hand" in the relationship by keeping me guessing and always having to "work to keep him". ; (
He turned out to be a big ego-maniac and of course the relationship couldn't last with him playing those kinds of mind games. so.....
I would just humble myself and call and find out what is going on. Otherwise you'll never know what happened.
If you get a good reason to explain what happened, like a family emergency or he got into an accident or something, then it's okay. But if he gives you an explanation that just doesn't add up, then you know he was playing the EGO-POWER game of HAAA-HAAA-HAAA i got her wrapped around my finger.
Be careful, I hope it works out. And I hope your boyfriend is absolutely nothing like my ex-friend. I wish you well on this one.
2006-08-06 18:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what...Only he can answer that for you..I think you should call him up and ask what's been going on!! There could be someone else..Or he could just be going through life stresses..You'll never know sitting around wondering..So how 'bout taking a very small step and just simply call him...If you get no response...Thats fine!
Try again another day...But dont feel your buggiing him or calling him too much because he's your boyfriend...You have questions that he's got answers too...So call,call,call!!
2006-08-06 18:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by BoSs_LaDii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is exactly that happened to me. My boyfriend was talking to me on thursday..as i remember...and he was like "Ooh...I was at this cafe and I saw this girl...she from our school and she's really cute..I HAVE to know her." Who the heck says this to your current girlfriend that has her ear right next to the phone. Well, normally at school, he would wait by my classroom or at my locker, but after that phone call he never waited. We havn't talked for like a few days..we became like total strangers. The worst thing was...he never said hi to me when we were at school!! Well, I guess he was too much of a chicken to brake it off with me so he asked his cousin to tell me to break it off with him. Well this hurt me a lot so what I suggest for you is to break if off...if you have not done so.
Oh yeah...my friends told me that this was probably his test to see if I got jealous or not but they were wrong.
2006-08-06 18:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by aNdwenNy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her temperature with certainly one of them butt-thermometers and it may launch her bowels. Sounds stupid, i understand, however the same factor occurred to me while i grew to become into 9 weeks previous and that mounted it...the checklist grew to become into so shocked.
2016-11-04 00:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know what to tell you....i haven't heard from my boyfriend since July 18th...thats the last time i talked to him on the phone....but he has a good excuse..he's in the army...
2006-08-06 18:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no hes testing u, usually girls do this to guys and he wants to see if ur being desperate, which u are
2006-08-06 18:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he ill, hurt and in the hospital? if not i would say you have been dumped.
2006-08-06 18:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is being an idiot
2006-08-06 18:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by kf4wwe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋