here's the story, it happened 2 weeks ago. my guy is an overseas worker. when he was new on the place and not working yet, he used to call, text or email me often. and that changed when he started working, i became paranoid. i started to think that he doesn't love me anymore. so, to catch his attention, i made up a story, i told him that my friend set me up for a blind date which i didn't know until we got to the meeting place. he got mad.. he didn't call or text me for 2 days. i begged for his forgiveness, and i was forgiven. but the problem is, he has not forget it yet, he always tell me not to do that again. should i just tell him the truth or just wait til he forgets it? i don't wanna lose his trust.
2006-08-06 17:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by julian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell him.
It does not matter if you told him the truth now. Actually, trying to explain the truth to him will even make him more suspicious of you.
Let's do some damage control here... You know for a fact now that you should not pull the same trick ever again. Also, you know he still wants you.
So, the next logical thing for you to do is to proactively send him messages to tell him how much you love and miss him. Tell him you want to be with him.
Men like to be praised on how good he is in bed, in work and in control. Give him a sense of that too. When all things are back in track, you can tell him the truth in a more relax and happy environment.
People are afraid to give praises to others nowadays, I don;t understand why...
2006-08-06 19:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO TELL HIM THE TRUTH, AND THEN HE
WILL BE MORE WILLING I BELIEVE TO TRUST YOU AGAIN,
HE WILL NOT IF YOU DONT HE MAY NOT EVER TRUST
YOU AGAIN. THAT WHY HONEST IS THE BEST POLICY,
AND IF YOU HAVE ISSUES WITH HOW HE FEEL THEN
NOW YOU KNOW JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT GOING
INSTEAD OF PLAYING GAMES.
2006-08-07 01:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth. He will understand, and more importantly, don't do that again. That kind os stuff ALWAYS backfires
2006-08-07 01:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie_Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better tell him the whole story.. you have no idea how it feels to be cheated.. i'm sure he loves you a lot and you better do anything to not to lose his trust
2006-08-07 00:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth will set u free
2006-08-07 00:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth? If you know the truth you should let him know the same.
2006-08-07 01:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better off to admit to a lie than to have him think he can not trust you at all
2006-08-07 00:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THRUTH!!! u dont't even have to think twice!
2006-08-07 00:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋