im soo confused...somo... please help??
..shes 13..and im the first guy to ever ask her out...im 15she was all over me....i asked her out a month ago...and she said idk maybe...she really backd off..and we dont talk nearly as much as we used to..her and her mom are really close...and her mom says she likes me more than a friend...but shes just scared that if we ever break up it will ruin the friendship and we see each other all the time and she thinks if we break up it will seem really really weird..i mean she likes me...but duznt wanna date me..cuz she's afraid of ruinin the friendship.if we ever break up...what should i
do??
2006-08-06 17:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be friends. Maybe something will happen between you in several years.
2006-08-06 17:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything.
Go on breaking up and start making up.
Take the life as it comes.
Just allow them to think and act.
In your case, you stop thinking and confusing your self.
Wait for the time. Time is the solution.
2006-08-06 17:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her try again...You two are so young i cant see where this would reck your friendship...My husband was my best friend for 10 years before we even started dating
2006-08-06 18:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all, dont listen to her mom, because 13 year old girls dont tell their mom's that kind of stuff. second of all... why are you asking her mom anyways?? and third.. if she wanted to date you, she would have said yes. she probably just wants to be your friend but doesnt want to hurt your feelings. sorry...
2006-08-06 17:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that whatever happens you will always be friends. if she is afraid to be more than friends, then go out as friends. dont say it as a 'date'.go to movies, skating rings, parks, ...make it casual.slowly she will come to you. take it slow and be friends first.
2006-08-06 17:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH OF YOU ARE YOUNG, SO I WOULD SUGGEST THAT'
YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, AND FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL
WANT A REALTIONSHIP WITH YOU, AND NOT THE WHAT
IF, WHICH IT SOUND LIKE WHAT THIS IS, BUT BOTH OF
YOU JUST NEED TO GROW SOME MORE,
2006-08-06 17:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends for now.
2006-08-06 17:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince her that doing nothing is hurting the friendship too
2006-08-06 17:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax if she is ready to go out you will know it
2006-08-06 17:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Liz T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect her answer and be her friend
2006-08-06 17:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋