wut should i do y'all ?

Question

i feel like a child with no mother my mother is still here but right now i dont know wut 2 do i know i act like i dont care about her but i do but deep down inside i buen like a gas stove, seh alwayz cursing me out and she always makin a promise that she never keep i know that sounds like every mother but mines never cums through on anything she says ima do it but never does im sick and tired of thys right now i dont live with her cuz if i do i think im goin 2 gey mentally abused she always calls me all kinds of bytches and she alwayz says **** u bree and since im dark skin she calls me a black bytch and im very self conscious about that its like shes bein racist and she shows a differnce its like my lyttle brother is her favorite and every tyme a man cums in our life she ignores us she and the man locks ther self in the room 4 the hours and neglect us if we say we hungry she say go fix u sumthin 2 eat but if the man is hungry then she hop up and fix him sumthin eat wut should i do?

Answer 1

BEST WAY TO BREAK IT DOWN AND SAY IT IS THAT UR MOTHER IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE..ITS GOING TO HAVE TO BE SOMETHING DRASTIC IN ORDER FOR HER TO CHANGE I MEAN LIKE A LIFE AND DEATH SITUATUION..U SHOULDNT DO ANYTHING BC IF U HAVE DONE ALL U CAN TO HAVE THAT MOTHER - DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP AND SHE DOESNT ACCEPT IT THEN YOU JUST DO YOU. IM NOT SAYING CUT HER OUT OF UR LIFE COMPLETELY ..CALL HER ONCE OR TWICE A WEEKS IF SHE DONT WANT TO TALK TO U THEN THATS HER..UR HEART SHOULDNT BE HURTING FOR SOMETHING SHE IS DOING..SOONER OR LATER SHE IS GOING TO REALIZE THAT U ARE HER DAUGHTER BUT WHEN THAT HAPPENS IT MIGHT BE TOO LATE FOR HER. IF ITS EFFECTING U THAT MUCH THEN JUST LET IT LAY LOW FOR A WHILE..SHE IS IN THE DARK RIGHT NOW BUT SHE WILL COME TO THE LIGHT....GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 2

First off, fix your grammer because I had a hell of a time trying to understand what you were saying because you had no periods and words that didn't go where they were. Second, tell child services, other relatives, maybe the police, and your father, if you have one and know where he is (I don't mean to be rude or anything by saying that, I just want you to tell your father if he's involved in your life). She doesn't need to be doing that to her kids.

One of my friends lost her baby brother in a car fire and her mom is in the process of a court case of child endangerment. Two of my friends younger siblings were in the car too. My friend had nine siblings, but the youngest died in the car fire and the next two youngest were in the same car and the mom went in a store shopping. The mom, a few months later, told my friend some remarks like your mom tells you. My friend I think told reporters, and has custody of at least five of her siblings I think. The kids range from 3 to 18. Turn your mom into authorities and see if you can get protection and a woman that'll love you like any mom should, and if your mom doesn't like it, I think you may be old enough to say that you don't want to be involved with her, no matter for how long you're at her house.

Answer 3

Go to a counselor at school and tell them how you feel. This is verbal abuse and it needs to stop. It's not good for you, and your family needs help. You deserve to live in an environment where you're not degraded and insulted, and your mother obviously has issues that need addressing too. A school counselor can hook you up with the proper help. Good luck, and don't let your mother's harsh words bring you down. You're better than that kiddo. ; )

Answer 4

Understand what your mother is going thru, she has to take care of y'all all by herself. She is probably struggling to make it everyday. I know how you feel, but my father treated me like a step child because I was darker than my brothers and sisters. It took a long time to understand why my father was like that, but his father did that to him. It is a vicious circle, but you have to bring love back. No matter what your momma says, Always tell her you love her, no matter how bad she treats you. You are smart enough to get on-line, then you are smart enough to make breakfest-lunch-or dinner. Things you will need to know, when you go out on your own. Always remember you are beautiful, and you have to find happiness yourself, no matter what your mother says to you. She is only looking for the happiness she never found, and one day your mother will realize she is neglecting you, and she will no longer put anyone before you.

Answer 5

I like your mom Bree, She not at all like your telling everyone,

Answer 6

that sucks just be like to ur mom, HEY! WHY DONT YOU GET YOUR LAZY AS$ AND MAKE ME SOME PIE BITCHHHHH! RESPECT MY ATHORITYYY!!! works everytime.

Answer 7

just continue to live where u are , and talk to your dad or grandparents, someone you can trust about your situation.