How often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend a week?

Question

ive been with my boyfriend for rufley 9 months. We made a schedual plan to see eachother ever mon, wed, fri, and sat. lately for the past 3 weeks he hasnt followed on saturday, last week he had a concert, this week his friend was coming back from NC, but still his friend didnt get to his house till 8 pm so why couldnt he hang out with me before then?

So I only see him 3 times a week now when it use to be eather every day or 5 times a week

Also he always says he going to call me before he goes to bed, then he calls me at 1 am , when im in bed by then

we live 45 min away from eachother but i always drive there

Answer 1

im on the same schedule with my honey first off guys need time and sometimes when they are expecting their friends they want to have energy to go out with the guys too! next guys like time to themselves its nothing agaisnt you its just they want alone time. and ask him ot call you earlier than 1 am tell him you are sleeping and it disrupts your sleeping pattern if hes a true sweetheart he will call you earlier after you ask!

Answer 2

My boyfriend and I live together and I don't even see him that much. When he leaves for work I am sleeping, I leave for work before he gets home from work and when I get home from work he is sleeping. So, we get to see each other on Saturdays and Sundays when we are not sleeping because we are so exhausted from our work week.
I would talk to him about the way that you are feeling. Sounds like he is trying to take some time for himself. We all need that sometimes. But, if it bothers you and you are sensing something else, then talk to him about you feel. The only way that you are going to have a successful relationship is through open communication.

Answer 3

I would safely say that if you are seeing him at least 2-3 times a week, you should be fine. Sometimes things happen and people need to let loose a little bit. Are you takling to him on at least everyday? If you are, then don't sweat things... especially if you have "prime time" days in that equation though in addition, you have no cause to really worry. At least in my opinion.

Answer 4

personally i meet him on every sundays 4 a date.otherwise v c each other often in b/w the weeks.thngs r not same all the time otherwise it gets formal.just b natural.so that after sumtime dont find ur relation worth as it wud hamper ur daily routine

Answer 5

personally i thin ktrying to stick to a strict schedule makes relationships to stressful. in my last relationship sometimes i saw my bf every day and sometimes only 2 or 3 times a week. it just depends on the time you have and how willing you are to make time for each other. i think he should be making more time for you because you seem to be making an effort for him

Answer 6

Well for me i only some times see my bf once or twice a week other than that i dont see him at all

Answer 7

to tell u the truth i think sumthings up and i don't see my boyfriend that much either but thats because we stay in different cities and sumtimes i be really wantin to see him what im sayin is u need to confront him and tell him how u feel

Answer 8

seems like things are going sour..sit him down talk to him about it..find out how he still feels about this relationship..if he is being uncooperative you should tell him that communication is sooooooo important to any relationship..if he is no longer interested either take a break or break up..

Answer 9

Before we got married , we saw eachother everyday

Answer 10

we will meet after 280 days as he is in uk and i am in India