2006-08-06 16:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by re-re 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you made yourself perfectly clear, or are you maybe sending mixed signals. I know it's hard for you, but unless he is being out of line or stalking you, try to be kind. He is probably hurting. And you obviously thought he was a pretty cool guy at one time, right? So he is probably still a good guy, but you have probably out grown him or realized he just wasn't for you. Try and stay friendly, a girl can never have too many friends. You will have to be the judge of this because you didn't really give much information. One of my best friends is my ex husband. And believe me, I thought for sure that he was going to drive me crazy when we split up. One of my other best friends is my recently ex-boyfriend. They are friends now too and both always here and it really freaks out all my neighbors, lol.
2006-08-06 17:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of these people have some good suggestions for you, but one thing you want to remember is to be nice about it when you do. If you're too blunt and rude about it, you may run into a new type of problem. You never know who the next Ted Bundy will be.
2006-08-07 00:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his friends to take him out to meet other people. The sooner he meets a new girl, the sooner he will be over you.
In the meantime, ignore his phone/email messages. Hopefully he will get the hint soon.
2006-08-07 00:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him your a lesbian now.
That's what I did and now everyone at our work thinks it too. I really don't care tho, coz atleast he's got the hint and when I do see other guys I make sure he wont find out otherwise he bugs me even more.
2006-08-07 00:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, show him that you're completely done with him.
If he persists...then do it in a not-so-nice manner.
Still nothing?
Then tell him to **** off or you'll get a restraining order against his ***.
Good luck! haha
2006-08-07 00:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about all your dates and let him know that there is a great reason that the two of you are no longer together and remind him of it every chance you get.
2006-08-07 00:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by dollie480 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl I had the same prob.... just tell him you just want to be friends and to leave it at that.... and if he keeps buggin you then you don't even want to be friends....
2006-08-07 00:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, start talking about other guys. Trust me he will get the picture. It is best for you and him, if you aren't into him anymore, he needs to move on.
2006-08-07 00:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just block him every way possible, so that he can't get in touch with you. if that doesn't work well try talking to him, if he still doesn't stop. i would say report him to the police and get a peace bond against him.
2006-08-07 00:04:46 · answer #9 · answered by broken_dreams2637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him...he'll eventually get the hint. or just tell him to leave you the crap alone. hopefully he's not crazy. Afterall ya'll aren't together for a reason,true?
2006-08-07 00:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by nickie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋