Ladies, what do u really want?

Question

If you ask a girl what she wants in a man she'll say protection, sweet love, gentle care, security, spirituality, all that great stuff. But then if you give a girl all of that she puts you in the friendzone. Why ladies? Why do you get freaked out when a guy gives you what u say u want? Is it that you don't really know what you want? Or is it that you just don't want to tell us? Seriously, help a guy out here please.

Answer 1

You are right and I have no idea what we really want cuz when we get what we say we want...you are right, we aren't happy. We want someone with all of that who can still provide a challenge.

Answer 2

Hmmm..... that's a tricky question..... I know that I want from a man (I'm married). But when I was looking, I wanted someone who would support my ideas, love me, pretty much everything that a woman says she wants. However, when I found my true love, he was nothing but a challenge. We had different ideas, different goals, different everything pretty much.
But now, we support each other in everything, and are always there, no matter what. I honestly think that women who are looking have set their standards high, and when they fail, they don't know what to do. That's why we put the ones who treat us like gold in the friends section and the ones that treat us like sh*t, we date.
That's my take on it.

Answer 3

Either she's not interested in you as a boyfriend or she's scared of getting close to you. Sometimes we don't let in guys we feel we may get attached to because that can lead to heartbreak.

Answer 4

I have a friend who has this theory that woman want to be treated like ****. I am starting to think he is right...

Answer 5

That's all B.S.......Cash, and sex!...........and yeah that's my final answer!

Answer 6

we want it all & we want it our way or take the highway!!!!!!!!