2006-08-06 16:37:23 · 56 answers · asked by candacer2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my bf is 36 and I'm 21...my parents don't know..but I'm an adult and over 18, so you should tell your mom. After all she's has your heart in mind and your best interest at heart.
If this guy deceives you, or does something to hurt you, at least you'll have your mom's support to get over it.
Good luck!
2006-08-06 16:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by SuperGirls™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all....you are not in love with this man. At your age, you dont even know what love is. So....why are you with a 31 year old anyway? You kinda have to think about that. I mean.....what are you getting out of it that you couldn't get with someone younger and legal? Second of all.....tell your mom. right now. what are you waiting for? Obviously you know you should tell her....or you wouldn't be asking this question. Third.....ditch the child molester. There's so many other guys that are your age.
2006-08-06 17:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah you really should. Most or less there is a chance ur mom will totally disapprove and if she does she's SMART! Sorry hun but ur gonna get hurt or prgnant and that wont be a fun thing. Be smart go talk to ur mom this guy isnt for you. If u are 16 u got ur whole life to meet a hot goodloking guy ur age u got lots going for u don't let an old geezer twice ur age be ur bf go find a hot one ur own age .
2006-08-06 16:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by Confused4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, well I don't know how your relationship with your mom is like, but I'm sure she'd freak out if you told her. what are you doing with a 31 yr old man? plus if you have sex with him, that's considering having sex with a minor. and there's no love in that. you're only with the 31 yr old to be your sugar daddy. find someone your own age or just a couple years older than you, trust me you'll be happier.
2006-08-06 16:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...do you think your mom will put him in jail when she flips out???
Because 16 n 31 is definitely ILLEGAL!
I'm 17, my fiance is 23 and even that is illegal but luckily my mom just dealt with it.
Good luck! You're the only one who can really answer that question, you know your mom better than anyone out here will.
have you discussed this question of yours with your boyfriend?
2006-08-06 16:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah you should tell your mom. what the hell would a normal 31 yr old want with a 16 yr old,(no offense)girl go enjoy your life leave that old *** man alone!!!!!when you are in your prime he probably will need you to change his diaper.
2006-08-06 16:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by seanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes becuse that person could take advantage of you cause your so much more younger than him. Your 16 so you should think responicibly about what you are doing. One of my friends who was 15 dated a 21 year old and he curupted her to do alot of things that she indeed up regretting. Thats a dangrous line your crossing.
2006-08-06 16:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by aaron_williams100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may view this as a relationship, but the police would see it as an adult molesting a young girl.
I would urge you to end the relationship now, before your parents and/or the police find out about it.
You need to be with someone much closer to your age.
2006-08-06 16:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay....first of all...what NORMAL 31 year old MAN would be interested in a 16 year girl...if he wasn't sick! Girl you need to get away from him. NOW...don't look back...if he's really into you then he can wait until your in your 20's !!!!! He is a sick man!!!
2006-08-06 16:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by livinNlovin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are your Mom?
If she is not single & over 31, you can think of telling her.
Otherwise, why tell her & take a risk?
2006-08-06 16:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋