and also admitts to making out with other guys and experimenting but he's not gay? he says he is just opened minded i feel disappointed as though he ruined his image in my eyes.
2006-08-06 16:26:47 · 22 answers · asked by nans77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, it creates a negative impression................
but on the other hand just think of the honesty that the person is showing.................
that is also not to be ignored...
2006-08-06 16:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by eva 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is the cusp of a trend - - - women strapping it on and giving it to the guy is the newest way women can feel dominant and men can believe that they are empowering women and also, 'not really gay.' Most men are curious about taking it up the butt. Not all of them act on that impulse. The butt can be quite sensitive to pleasure. I would say strap it on and go with the flow. Your man will love it and you won't have as much fear about him going out and getting the real thing. Peace er ah Piece.
2006-08-06 23:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would like it at all...if my bf confesses that i would probably leave him
unless...you love himm too much and you dont care or that you are as open minded as he is...i am not and i would tolerate that and the image of him making out with another guy would kill me!
so...think about very well and see that in the future you can deal with a nasty bf wanting you to put things in his butt or losing him (for another boyfriend..not a girl)
2006-08-06 23:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then maybe that is a problem that You have....not him. At least he told you about it, wouldn't you have been more upset if you had found out down the road and then felt like he kept it from you. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. He is with you because he wants to be, and he knows that. I admire him for being honest about it, many men wouldn't be. I, myself, don't see anything wrong or nasty about it...at least you are both open enough to communicate about it, that is a good thing!! Good Luck!!
2006-08-06 23:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by lissad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he isn't gay but I don't think he is heterosexual either. I think this person is bi-sexual.
That opens a lot of doors for a lot of things, like aids and other sexually transmitted diseases. Be careful, Be very careful.
Good luck and find someone else.
2006-08-06 23:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by wetsaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was doing good until you mentioned the 'making out with other guys' thing. If he has touched another guy, then he's gay. End of story.
2006-08-06 23:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only wrong or nasty if you feel it is. Personally, I think it's great that he's opened minded and HONEST.
2006-08-06 23:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Raggedy Ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its "wrong" that he admitted it to you. Have you asked him directly if he is bi / gay curious? Perhaps he's just into toys....Some folks have different fetishes when they are in the heat of the moment.
2006-08-06 23:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by Drew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes a curious bi when a guy experiments its gay if straight guys will never even think about it sorry your boyfriend is bi
2006-08-06 23:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by lztexan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you handle it. I think it would make me look at him in a different way being with other men. Not in a good way either!!
2006-08-06 23:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats nasty find another guy
2006-08-06 23:33:32 · answer #11 · answered by * Fantasy * 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋