I have been finding myself in situations where my dinner companions have more experience that I when it comes to table manners.
I'm no animal when I eat, I just feel like I ought to know the do's and don'ts
Any suggestions?
2006-08-06 16:18:42 · 11 answers · asked by MattMan 3 in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
look for etiquette sites for tips. Here are some that are helpful.
http://www.cuisinenet.com/digest/custom/etiquette/manners_intro.shtml
http://www.mannersinternational.com/etiquette_tips_table.asp
http://www.askmen.com/money/successful/success6.html
2006-08-06 16:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with someone who is experienced and they will be happy to teach you. Go somewhere fun where the waiters know their manners better than you (used to) when you understand all of the concepts. The main things to remember are to sit up straight, keep hands, elbows, etc. off of the table. The forks, knives, spoons are set in the order you will use them - start with the outer most utencil. The waiters are trained to remove all utencils not used or needed. When eating soup - the spoon is placed in the bowl and dipped away from you and then to your mouth. Napkins go on your lap (not tucked into your shirt). Never use your hands in a nice restaurant -ever. I learned from my parents, and I have had to teach men I've dated and now, my children and my husband. They especially liked the help on a cruise ship we were on. Women will admire you for knowing.
2006-08-06 16:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ambrosia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch other people. Even at a fast food place, you can see who has good manners and who does not. Just sit and have a bowl of ice cream or a soda. Watch how all the people around you do everything. Copy the good ones next time you have a meal.
2006-08-06 16:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several hotels now offer dining etiquette lessons...what to do with all the knives,forks, spoons; holding seats for a lady, serving yourself when a tray is held for you, proper napkin placement, wines/drinks to order,etc. I know the Waldorf in NYC used to do it and some Hyatt's as well...good luck! Just remember to work from the outside in.....as far as silverware is concerned, anyway! Oh, and when they pass the bowl with a lemon in it....it's not soup, it's a finger bowl...gently rinse your fingers and wipe with the towel they usually provide!
2006-08-06 16:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have an older aunt, grandparent, mom's friend, girlfriends mom? Ask one of these ladies to help you out. OR go to the library and pick up a book on etiquette. Several larger cities have businesses who offer classes on etiquette. I would start at these places.
2006-08-06 16:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was little I was FORCED to take a manners course teaching me the proper way to dine. I suggest taking an ettiquette course at a learning annex or whatever is close by. It was make you feel more confident in your ability.
2006-08-06 16:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by libbyocto14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, no person notices those products. Or in the event that they do they think of not something of it. A milk moustache is relaxing, definitely. And it is not impolite to get in basic terms slightly foodstuff on your face. in basic terms use a serviette.
2016-11-04 00:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the people who eat in hotel restaurants.
2006-08-06 16:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a book on etiquette
2006-08-06 16:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically just mind your manners---slow down---talk civil---and be a total gentleman whenever possible----that makes the best impession
2006-08-06 16:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋