Lately I met a friend on mind who is 20 years old. We become friends and now we end up kissing everyday. I must see her everyday and i really like her. She invites me to her house when her parents are not at home and we end up kissing and other stuff. We have not had sex yet. It looks like we will end up having sex very soon. She is only twenty and I married. I love my wife but cannot resist this girl. She is very kind , pretty and soft. Please help me. What should I do.
2006-08-06 16:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
You are big enough to chose your life partner. It is a sin to fool around with a young girl. Break of with her now. Give the girl a break. You are controled by lust so forget her and come back to reality.
2006-08-06 22:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋
Don't tell your wife! It will hurt her more than you can imagine! You know in your heart that this is wrong. The next time the girl calls tell her that is wrong. Ignore any pleas from her. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HER STOP IT RIGHT NOW. It will hurt your marriage. In fact it will destroy your marriage. Go before god and confess your sin! Ask God for forgiveness, if you are faith to confess and sincerely mean it you won't have anything to do with her ever again. Tell the devil to leave you a lone. Cleave unto your wife, Read the Bible. Go to church with your wife. Live for the Lord and a peace and happiness will reign with you and your wife. If you were to give into the other woman only evil and bad can come out the other union. I say to you, "Choose you this day whom you will serve--God and good or satan and all his wickedness?"
2006-08-06 23:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love your wife. Stop what you are doing with this other woman. Immediately. Otherwise, get a divorce and be with the other woman. There is no in-between here.
By the way, you can resist her. Everytime you thinking about doing something... look at your wife, kiss her, stay at home... take your wife out and count yourself lucky you have a woman who loves you. Otherwise you are ruining three lives, yours, your wife and this other woman.
2006-08-06 23:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by xolodnyj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and take a good and hard look at what you are doing. You say you love your wife, well go home, talk to her, treat her like you did when you were dating. Get the spark back that made you fall in love with her and promise to love honor and cherish her for as long as you both shall live. Or don't marriage vows mean anything anymore?
2006-08-06 23:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I don't understand people like you. last week you were a girl dating your bf for 2 years no sex and now you've got a wife but thinking of cheating on her. We can see all the questions you've asked just y hitting one little button. You are a LIAR!
2006-08-06 23:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dainlynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a decision before this goes any further. You cannot have both. Do you have a future with this girl? Or could you get over her?
And then think of this - if it was your wife doing what you are doing, what would you want? Answer that truthfully and I think you'll have the answer for yourself.
2006-08-06 23:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! I pray that you don't have any kids yet.
You need to stop seeing her. Don't lie to yourself, you do not love your wife, if that is love then what is hate to you?
You need to decide what you want. Do you want a 20 year old, or your wife. Then you need to tell your wife, and if she is able to forgive you you both need to be in marriage counseling. Something is seriously wrong with your marriage if you are doing this, not to mention with yourself.
You also need to apologize to Jesus for living a life of sin, and ask him to come into your heart because you want to live your life for him.
That's what I think!
2006-08-06 23:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Ask me anything! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Gumby, do you have a wife and a girlfriend or a boyfriend? If you are a guy why do you want to know about brestfeeding?
Sounds like you are really really to confused for yahoo answers, try a mental clinic.
2006-08-06 23:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple. My advice would be to choose one or the other. You can flip a coin if you want.
You could always take the low road, and try to keep them both, but the horizon will look pretty stormy if you do that. Guaranteed.
2006-08-06 23:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is called "obsession"... If you really LOVE YOUR WIFE. Tell the girl not to come back. stop going to her house. this is a VERY bad road for a mairried man to be on...
2006-08-06 23:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you need to either ditch this girl or separate from your wife than you and the girl can be together, because it is not right for you to be cheating on your wife
2006-08-06 23:49:49 · answer #11 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋