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I need to get ok there and date around but work and school get in the way. I really want a steady boyfriend but,would i have time for him?

2006-08-06 16:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

13 answers

wtf

2006-08-06 16:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by whuvahgut? 2 · 0 0

Yes you do have time. What you have to do is find someone with a similar schedule. It is hard but can be done. You will have to let them know that the you are looking for something serious and you have to realize that the little get to know each other games have to go.

Start going out when it is convenient to you, that is how you can find people on the same schedule. I remember dating someone for a while and we only met during wed and thurs during the day, that was the only time we had to hook up.

You can find a steady boy friend but if you are really busy the regular dating on the weekend is over. In fact work and school will probably change your dating practices from here on out. Dating is for anytime, not just the weekends or nights.

2006-08-06 23:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0 0

This is actually a smart question. I had a lot of fratnernity brothers that just dominated their girl friends' time. I knew other couples that built their class schedules around being in the same classes.

And admittedly I even spent too much time with the woman who is now my wife. But I was young, dumb and in love and just couldn't understand the need for some space in a relationship.

So I think you'll have to put yourself out there and look for a guy that shares your feelings about work and school and can respect the space you need for those things. We do so easily once we are married, but when you are dating, etc. you just want to be with that person and you can forget everything else. That's what's great about love and also distracting at the same time.

Good luck...life's a journey...be sure to get a ticket!

2006-08-06 23:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by KERMIT M 6 · 0 0

I find many women have multiple things to do in their life and they also balance a date or two in the middle of it...Just get yourself organized and really look at your life..Maybe you can cut a few hours here and there to help alont the way...You might not be able to date as much as you want but start out slow and light then as time goes add more to it...God bless ya

2006-08-06 23:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0 0

you have got to make time for yourself.... work and school of course come first. But tell yourself that every other weekend you are going to commit to something... and then make dates and keep them. You can make it work.. When I met my husband 12 years ago. I was working and in school. He was working 2 jobs. we only got to see each other on Saturday nights after 8 pm for the first 2 years. You can make it work but you have to want to work for it. Good luck!!!

2006-08-06 23:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by reneelost 2 · 0 0

Get one first, then find out. If you start dating somebody, make it clear that you aren't going to be together every day. He will be more free and happy that way, anyway.... and it will give you time for your work and school.

2006-08-06 23:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0 0

You dont have to give all your time to your studies . There should always be time for your lovelife you should enjoy your life because life is what you make it. Do everything habang may time pa to be spend. All i can advice is that be balance in every thing. Remeber there is always a time for everything. Hope you like it GOD bless you and have a nice day

Your friend,
althea cruz;usa

2006-08-06 23:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry Ann A 1 · 0 0

No, you don't. Focus on your education and career. Find things to get involved in, and be happy with yourself. When you are truly happy, the light from within shines, and you'll attract the right type of person. If you find the right person, trust me, you'll make time for him, and he for you.

2006-08-06 23:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 3 · 0 0

Make time if you want a committed relationship.

2006-08-06 23:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0 0

so go get one

2006-08-06 23:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0 0

make time.

2006-08-06 23:13:38 · answer #11 · answered by bamber lyn 1 · 0 0

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