If you are a hot guy and your best girl friend is sort of fat and she has a big enough crush on you to tell you she loves you but you don't love her that way, would you...
A. Consider her
B. Laugh untuil soda comes out of your nose
C. Date her to make her happy and dump her a week later, or
D. Other
If you picked D what would you do?
2006-08-06 15:55:05 · 36 answers · asked by girlwithadditude101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D. ignore it unless i was drunk. then, i would probably do something stupid and regret it the next day.i like thicker girls, thicker does not equall ugly. ugly = ugly.
2006-08-06 16:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. - It's always best to give someone a chance. After all, looks can be deceiving and personality is the biggest part of what makes you unique. Personality has a lot more to do with who I like/date than anything else. It depends on the hot guys personality. If he's moral and ethical, he'd probably do it my way.
Whoa - A lot of these guys are way too shallow.
Agree w/ Erik - Definitely!
WARNING - Don't ask this guy when he's with a bunch of people or you are. He'll either laugh at you or blow it off if you are around loads of people most likely.
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Truthful
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Yourself
2006-08-06 15:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her off slowly--gently unless you are not her best friend and simply emotionally cut her heart out by blowing her off with ridicule or using her; she is being honest and deseves at least that too.
Tell her that you like her as a friend but that you are not ready of a more personal relationship because you feel the friendship will suffer; but of course this is only if you really care about her as a friend.
2006-08-06 16:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D. If I don't find her attractive tell her that, "I am flattered but (enter proper nice let down excuse here)" However I have found out never lie because she will check out my excuse. She will be pissed off anyway but if I lie it will be worse.
Willian Shakespear coined the prhase "Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned". There is a reason that phrase has lasted centuries with out a single letter changing.
2006-08-06 16:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D. Give her the attention I feel she needs. She is human and should not be looked at as "sort of fat", but as another human being. If I didn't "love her that way" I would be honest and tell her.
2006-08-06 16:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D=other. I would just tell her that i like her as a friend and that would be that. Theres no need to do any of the others, why would you do that? She is your friend, i treat her as one. Just because she is fat though would not be a deciding factor, looks are not the be all and end all. Beauty is skin deep!
2006-08-06 15:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by brett_day2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on personality. I respect the personality more than looks. I'd consider A, or D, say I'm not interested. B is just too mean, and C is as well.
2006-08-06 15:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's too loaded a question. In reality, it depends on a lot of other things, like her smile, her personality and other aspects.
Depends on the guy, too. Some guys will do A. when alone, and B. when with their lame friends.
2006-08-06 15:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D. Let her down gently. Tell the truth, but be very nice about it, and let her know that I still want to be friends.
On a different note, she would have to be *extremely* obese; weight is usually not as important to guys as girls seem to think it is.
2006-08-06 16:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a bi girl and i have the same problems sometimes. i always say A and consider them. and if i've considered it i'll go with D. Date them. looks really dont matter when you get down to it, because everyone becomes ugle after a while.
2006-08-06 16:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D. I will make a decision and if she not good enough I will say to her the truth. If she is fat just say you must diet!
2006-08-06 16:07:25 · answer #11 · answered by Rex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋