what would you do or how would you feel if your girlfriend wanted to stop having sex with you because she wanted to wait till shes married?
ive been with my bf for almost 9 months now weve had sex plenty of times, but we also talked about marraige, so i want to wait till we get married, so if hes serious he wouldnt mind right?
2006-08-06 15:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know im not a virgin but i figured i can always bea born again virgin, plus if he loves me he wouldnt mind
2006-08-06 15:43:33 · update #1
I already spoke to him about it, he told me its ok, but sounded kind of quit after
2006-08-06 15:48:56 · update #2
I thought you were trying to conceive, hoebag.
2006-08-10 13:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry
you let the cat out of the bag and you cannot put it back in
if he knows he found a girl who will put out before marriage
he can easily find another to replace you
he may "love" you
but by doing what you did he realize that you will use sex as a weapon to get what you want down the road and he'll be pinned to that, either you give it uncondtionally or you do not at all
2006-08-06 22:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably go along with it if you're insistent enough, but he'll almost definitely mind. He'll get over it though, so if you're serious then stick to your guns and good luck.
Alternatively he may not agree, nobody likes unilateral decisions. Hey here's an idea, why not try ASKING him his opinion? Marriage is a partnership remember?
2006-08-06 22:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by Smarticus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The virgin bride is not in your category. If you want to not have sex till then he will think he did something wrong. He would try to put rationality to it if he really loves you.
2006-08-06 22:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a perfect test to see if he really loves you. go 4 it, but just be warned, i'm a guy and i would be hurt if that happened. it would make me feel like i sucked or sumn. like i wasn't keeping sex interesting enough. or worse yet, u found what u wanted in another guy. u will have to explain urself to him clearly. if he loves u it wont phase him too bad
2006-08-06 22:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by vthokie4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right
2006-08-06 22:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a virgin so why wait now? That makes no sense, you already gave it up girl.
2006-08-06 22:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what exactly she will be waiting for? The second coming of Christ?? Tell her that you don't get any 'do overs' when it comes to virginity. Once it's gone, it's gone.
2006-08-06 22:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man has to spared his seed, if not with you then it will be with someone else that has no restrictions.
HE might be loyal for if he is comfortable taking matters into his own hands. but that only lasts 2 weeks!
2006-08-06 22:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you guys want to stop like the month before the wedding this way you could feel like you were virgins on your wedding night. i think you should talk about it with him. communication is key to any happy relationship. good luck~~
2006-08-06 22:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so true sweet heart if he really cares for you then hell wait ur a smart gurl and i wish min there cause i love him so much so if i can do it anyone can if they really love one other good luck god bless
2006-08-06 22:43:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋