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i'm 15 and so is he. so whenever i'm in history class, he keeps on asking me how the tests went for me.. but then when we get them back he brags that he got A's. And then on the street, he randomly called out my name, when I never gave it to him and his friends don't know me. what does it seem like he wants?
one more thing.. he's in the history class after mine.. so he couldn't have known my name from class.
my friend says he's not shy at all.. so if he liked me.. wouldn't he have already asked me out? what does he want.. if he's so un-shy, then why didn't he talk to me yet?? and now i can't stop thinking about him.. jeez i'm really confused. oh, and last thing!! he's really popular.. and i'm kinda not. so why would he like me? isn't it against his stupid popularity rules to date a girl lower in the social chain? wouldn't his friends laugh at him? WHAT DOES HE WANT FROM ME?

2006-08-06 15:36:03 · 31 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

He's just playing with you, like a cat with a mouse. Don't waste your time with him.

2006-08-06 15:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

There is no such thing as a 15 year old boy who's confident with the opposite sex. I'm sure your guy is a special individual but he's maybe been aware of the opposite sex for 5 years tops and he's pretty useless when it comes to chatting up girls. He's into you and he wants to get to know you. He's fantacizing that one day when he asks how your history test went you'll sigh and tell him you desperately need tutorring before the final. Make his day. It'll give you a chance to talk to him without so much pressure and decide if you're into him too. Worst case scenario you'll get to study with someone getting A's in the class.

2006-08-06 23:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0 0

Popularity

2006-08-06 22:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0 0

...UR HEAD ON A PLATTER

Just Joking with u ;) But sometimes it seems that way with men. Grrr (hope that made you laugh)

Ok enough joking. This guy likes you and he is trying to get ur attention. You dont have to give him ur name for him to know it! He may have heard it around the way or asked someone!

This boy is pulling out all of the classic flirt tactics.
He asked you about your grades so that he could make small talk, then he bragged about his straight A's to get you to thinking that he was smart (he wants you to like him) Yelling out your name on the street when he KNOWS that you have never introduced yourself to him is to show you that hes noticed you.
He also knows how to get you in his head, doing small stuff but never going fully on and talking to you is a way to get you thinking about him (and it worked!)

He most likely finds u interesting, which is alot to say about a guy and girl at 15! Lower in the social chain?! Girl pick your head up!Just because you are not recognized by everyone and credited for your acheivements as the popular crowd is, does not mean you are LOWER in the chain. You are JUST as good as they are! They just publicize themselves more! You have something that other girls dont have. And he sees this, he wants to get to know you badly but u wont give him the time of the day.

He may not be shy, but YOU are the only girl that can make him weak in the knees and doubt himself and act all weird. This is a compliment. Use your power NOW while you have his attention!

Right now he doesnt CARE if his friends laugh at him for liking you...that is UNTIL you seem disinterested in him to them! Then all hell will break loose. He will try to heal his bruised ego by making cruel unneccessary comments to prove to his buddies that he never liked you anyway. So if you are shy, now is the time to step up and be YOU. Dont be afraid to look him in the eye, dont be afraid to smile back at him, dont be afraid to say HI. or do a light wave. Make him feel comfortable in approaching you. Laugh at what he says (not too hard) and dont flirt with other guys when hes around.

BOYS are complicated, then grow up to be COMPLICATED men! So dont go getting all deep for him if anything happens. Keep your head up and make sure he KNOWS that you have self-worth and are a real catch, regardless of the social chain.

If you like him you will need to act quickly, boys have short attention spans and will soon tire of the chase if it seems hopeless and there are other girls that will gladly scoop him up if u dont. So just keep being who u are, (even if you dont really know just yet) and dont start acting a certain way to impress him, dont mimick other people, just go about your day like you ALWAYS do (without ignoring him) and you will have him on a string. You dont have to change because he ALREADY likes you, you just have to make him feel comfortable enough to approach you.

GOOD LUCK!!

2006-08-06 22:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by LN 2 · 0 0

probably what he want you do not need to give...i would just try and stay away from him all i can....lots of guys want girls just to put a notch on there belt so to speak...they want you for the wrong reason.. and he may really like you....i guess time will tell...it is hard to say when a person does not know the guy at all....and i would not worry about how popular he is if i were you...some people get popular for the wrong reasons...

2006-08-06 22:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0 0

He likes you and is trying to make some friendly conversation and perhaps a little friendly competition with you.

He's trying to get a sense if you like him before he asks you out.

You don't have to be popular to be liked. There are no social chain rules. And if there were, its a good sign that he doesn't care about them and likes you for who you are.

Anyway, if you like him then why don't you ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime. Get to know him and see if you like him or not.

2006-08-06 22:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0 0

Well...maybe you need to make the first move and talk to him. Guys don't necessarily ask girls out right away. Maybe he would like to get to know you first and THEN ask you out.

As far as the popular thing, who cares how popular someone is, after you graduate...popularity MEANS NOTHING.

2006-08-06 22:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0 0

well its never easy to figure out what a man is thinking...at any age, lol
but I'd wager that he does like you and maybe just doesn't know how to handle himself around you...he did go to the trouble of finding out your name didn't he?
as for the being shy, it is possible that he be outgoing in most areas but still shy around girls?
could be that he is hesitant to date someone from a different social circle but most guys that age haven't figured out that what THEY think should rule out over what their FRIENDS think

you seem as if you really like this guy and I hope he gets over himself soon but don't sit around and wait for him, just play it cool and see what happens, maybe in the meantime another cutie will catch your attention

2006-08-06 22:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Willow 3 · 0 0

Girl, stop trippin' and go ask him. One of these days when he asks you about history again just ask him whats up. If you can't do that, get over it!!!!!! j/k It does sound like he likes you though. He may just be trying to figure out your interests before he approaches you.

2006-08-06 22:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by Binky 2 · 0 0

yeah... don't ask him the question the way you asked us...because he may be a little freaked out.

Maybe he wants friendship..maybe more. Just be patient with him and play the game. Act like you don't care... like its nothing that he talks to you.. and then he'll show what he wants. Besides.. he may be shy even though your friend thinks otherwise.

But remember...keep it cool.

2006-08-06 22:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by MyssCoCoPuff 1 · 0 0

hahaha! thats so cool. i dunno.. but i could guess. Maybe he's just havin fun. i knew a guy that talked to my friend, made up nicknames for her, and called out her name when they passed. She never much said anything to him (same thing with the popularity "rules") OOORRRR, maybe he does like u and wants to find out if ur interested in him or not before he asks u out. But be careful that he doesn't play u!

2006-08-06 22:42:43 · answer #11 · answered by Rainy Day 2 · 0 0

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