i go out with this guy and i feel really weord cause he was going out with my friend when i was with my ex boyfriend .my friend broke up with him cause she was tried of being lied to all the time he told me that he doesn't lie anymore i told him that the frist time he lies to me its over .but i feel like i am betrading my friend .they broke up the same time me and my ex broke up what should i do....................SOMEONE PLEASE HELPPPPPPPP ME?
2006-08-06 15:32:06 · 29 answers · asked by finesexyandsingle0109 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never put passion over principal.
2006-08-06 15:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by deleted 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, this seems a little complicated and you wrote it in some kind of teenager language so I don't quite understand.
Sounds like you and your friends share the same set of guys. Maybe it is time to find a new guy, one who loves you, doesn't lie and isn't an ex-boyfriend of your close friend.
2006-08-06 22:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gonna tell you that he will stop lying but do really believe that your friend is not going to be happy you chose her ex but obviously he is not a good catch anyway ..and you asking us so I know you have a really bad feeling about the whole thing so i say back out of this and go for the next hotty this one need to be left alone...
2006-08-06 22:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by classy chic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest help? Well, he's well established as a liar if he's claimed he won't do it anymore. So yeah, he'll probably do it again.
Of course if he does lie to you then you can hardly play the victim. "OH NO! HE ACTED PRECISELY THE WAY HE ALWAYS HAS!"
Then again, you chose to go out with someone you had doubts about, so your motives here are pretty questionable. Don't look to the internet to excuse you.
2006-08-06 22:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Smarticus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Is she "ok" with your dating her ex? Does she know, have you discussed it? How would you feel if she were to date your ex?
Be cautious. He says he doesn't lie anymore, and that could be his first lie to you. He certainly wouldn't tell you he still lies, if he is a liar, right?!
He may have changed his ways. Only time will tell. But, don't put your full trust in him just yet.
Be patient, take your time...
Good luck! :)
2006-08-06 22:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Sasha♥~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you really expect him to tell you he's still a liar? It's never good to go out with your girlfriend's ex. If you're friends, and he wasn't good to her, why would you want him? You sound young, so keep looking. There are plenty of guys out there that won't cause trouble between you and your best friend, and who you won't have to worry about lying to you.
2006-08-06 22:37:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its as simple as this, through your friend you have learned this side of this guy. why test it for your self? do you think that you are some how more capable of making this guy honest? hell no, he is who he is whether hes with you or your friend! if you are attracted in a sexual way then fill that need and send him down the road cause this dude will never make relationship material!!! if you were a real friend you would not have thought about dating this liar in the first place!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 22:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriends are hard to find. Guys are out there and a liar is a liar. Whatever he did to her he will do to you, feels good to think you can fix him or that you are special but guys like him are telling girls what they want to hear to get what he wants. Stay with your girlfriend, how would that make you feel if she did this to you. Think, god gave you a brain for just this reason.
2006-08-06 22:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if this friend is a really good friend then the rule to never date someone my friend dated is the best answer.
2006-08-06 22:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by hectcheryl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are betraying your friend. Dump him. Date someone your friends haven't already gone out with. Why would you want to date someone you know lies anyways?
2006-08-06 22:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you do that?
there are plenty of guys out there but your too lazy to look
so you get you freinds ex..
and then you wonder about possible complications?
so if you were smart
you dump him
find a new guy that only you know
and keep your freindship intact
2006-08-06 22:36:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋