My b/f and I have been having issues lately, and he was in the hospital about a week ago. Well, i didnt go and see him b/c my mom needed me to do things for her. He was only in the hospital for like 3 days. When I told him I had plans to see him he said "No, its ok, Im getting out soon anyways." Well, now that he's gotten out, he just seems like hes pushing me away. Doesnt call me, doesnt want to talk to me. I havent talked to him in about 2 days, and my sister called me and told me that she ran into him with 3 girls at the mall. WTF. What do I do?
2006-08-06 15:14:39 · 8 answers · asked by SamE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have a talk with him. Explain what your sister said she saw. Explain how you feel about him pushing you away. Explain that your mother needed you but you wished you'd been able to visit.
On the other hand, are you saying that your mother needed you for three WHOLE days and she wouldn't have understood you wanting to visit your sick boyfriend? I realize I don't know the whole story, but from what you said it doesn't sound like you tried all that hard to see him.
2006-08-06 15:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by rachcoli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Tell him that it feels like he's pushing you away. Ask him if it bothered him that you didn't visit him in the hospital. Ask him if he is seeing someone else. Just talk. And then listen. It should all become clear.
2006-08-06 22:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by happygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you cared about him you should have gone to see him, no matter what he said! I get panic attacks when I think about going to the hospital and my man fell and broke his foot and was in there for 5 days (other things went wrong too) and I bit the bullett and took some VALUM and went. Actions speak louder then words and your actions said "I dont give a damn".
2006-08-06 22:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by JOEYSMOM2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. relationships ruin when there is no communication. you should have visited him in the hospital. i know if my bf didnt visit me in the hospital i would be MAD!!! but now you should tell him you're sorry, and then discuss your feelings and what is going on w/ your relationship and w/ him being w/ other girls at the mall. just TALK!!
2006-08-06 22:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by musicislife1233 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a serious illness is a life altering event. It happens. I cleaned house after mine. Let him know you are available to talk or get together and leave it at that.
2006-08-06 22:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE NEEDED PITTY PARTY FOR HIS EGO SINCE YOU COULDN'T SHOW UP. IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT THOUGH, BE UPFRONT AND ASK WHAT'S GOING ON?
2006-08-06 22:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him how u feel then listen to him
2006-08-06 22:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him evidently he dont want to be with you
2006-08-06 22:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by TJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋