ok so i dispite all of your help i ididnt have to tell her that i was molesteed because she found out because she read my diary. i dont know why she was doing it but she did and she found out i cut and now its like she wont talk to me really and i dont know how to approach her , i mean i love my mom but i want her to think im crazy .
P.s : im 13 and i forgot to say what people genders were , they were guys and girls
2006-08-06 15:11:48 · 9 answers · asked by this little american star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you say to your momma, tell her you are glad she now knows and that you want to be able to talk about it, and that you really need her now and tell her that she is your back bone and ask her to help you get help so you don't grow up angry and so you can be happy your momma will be there for you she may be hurt and confused but if you let her know she is need it may help both of you and PRAY!!!
2006-08-06 15:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by little miss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am confused about your situation regarding being molested by three people. Were these three different incidents in your life by three different people? I am also confused why getting caught cutting is important in comparsion to your mother discovering your your terrible ordeal. The bigger picture here is not what your mother is thinking but rather how can this problem be opened up and discussed for your sake and well being. Your mother's pain is without doubt terrible, but no one gets healed and closure until this is given to a third party who is knowledable in this field. Your only job is to discuss this with professionals, such as a referral through the crisis hotline or school adviser. These people will direct you to the right person to help you and your mom. Denial is very powerful and just because your mom has chosen that road does not mean you should. If you don't know who to call then call your local social services for referrals in this matter.
2006-08-06 15:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by the answers are there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did not read your first question but now that she knows she feels unsure what to do---fearful, betrayal, feels responsible because she did not protect you, or feels afraid of what the future holds due to the situation---still what ever the reason she needs to act or the predator will do it again until he or she gets sent to prison.
I am sorry something so evil has happen to you; over here there is a case where the monster molested many children (all boys) after 25 years of molesting children one person spoke up and he gave courage to others and now this molester will go to prison where he will never hurt another child. I hope you are able to get therapy because this will affect you.
2006-08-06 15:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read your original question but if your mom knows you were molested she needs to get you into therapy. Talk to a counselor at school. This is not something that can be ignored.
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2016-11-23 13:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all something like that is big and should not be talked about or written thats between you and family. teens these days including yourself either hate your family or think you know everything but you dont. she cares about you and wants whats best for you she would also die for you and rip off ther heads the poeple who try to harm you. dont be so rebelious or try to hate her she loves you and believe me your gonna need her while you growing up
2006-08-06 15:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by applejack80@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably feeling guilty about not protecting you. Go find therapy on your own, look in the phonebook for helplines to get you treatment.
2006-08-06 15:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom you're sorry you didnt tell her sooner, but now you really need her help and understanding. you need to go into therapy. i was sexually assaulted by my father and i cut myself, and i went into therapy and got pills for depression, and im doing fine now. i hope things work out for you, and im sorry for all that you've gone through. hang in there honey! things get better! :)
2006-08-06 15:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by musicislife1233 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels guilty that she didn't see what was going on
2006-08-06 18:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋