my boyfriend wants to *** me but i keep holding it off do you think that if i tell him no that he will brake up with me
after all im only 14
2006-08-06 14:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a woman, we have a very special element about us. To abstain from sex at 14 is a very mature idea. It want make you wiser, or more popular, (at least not in a good way) nor will you ever get that first time back. Make sure its with someone you love. Its a special gift and if he loves you back, then you will know its the right thing to do. But at least hold off as long as you can. There are less woman in the world like you. Make sure your first time is just as special for the two of you. By waiting, the man you become intimate with, will know that you look at him in a very meaningful way. You sound like a very smart young woman. Bravo!!!
2006-08-06 15:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like u said u r only 14. Ur toooooo young and if he don't respect that then u two shouldn't be together. He may brake up wit u but at least u won't get pregnant. Just because u use a condom doesn't mean u won't get pregnant. There r defaults. If he doesn't respect your decision then u brake up wit him cause u deserve better.
2006-08-06 21:57:18 · answer #2 · answered by BabyGirl142 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, 14 is pretty young still to have sex, hun.
But what matter is if you're ready or not. If you're not ready (and it sounds like you aren't) then you owe it to YOURSELF to NOT have sex.
It's YOUR body, and you should never have to let anyone tell you what to do with your body.
YOU are the only one who will stand up for YOU.
(If he breaks up with you because you didn't want intercourse, then he really isn't a good boyfriend at all. Guys can be slutty.... Find someone who CARES about you for you.)
Good luck Hun!!!
P.S. I had sex when I wasn't ready, and I still regret it...years later... just my $0.02.
2006-08-06 21:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by JennBride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really 'looooved' you, then he'd wouldn't make you/keep asking you to do anything. He doesn't love you. Dump his sorry a.s.s. after all, the minute you two have sex, he's just gonna go off and find another girl. Hun, follow my advice...please. I may be aonly a year older than you, but I do know.
2006-08-06 21:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably so, but that's because he's a shallow, self-serving idiot. Most guys are at that age. You're looking for depth, connection, commitment and longevity. He's looking for your taco.
Look at things from his reality not yours, and then politely tell him to ki$$ off.
It will be the best thing for you most likely....sorry but this is what I belive to be true.
2006-08-06 21:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is typical that he will, ur only 14, save urself for when u are at least 21 or so, ur way too young
2006-08-06 21:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Kurtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you, then who cares. Sure, you'll be sad. But what's more important? Your personal morals and dignity, or giving in to his sexual desires becasue he can't simply wait until you're ready?
2006-08-06 21:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go on the rest of ur life without him.....theres other fish in the sea!!! LOL
2006-08-06 21:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Miley Cyrus! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend like him honey.Just leave him.Do you know that he not love you.He only wants you for sex!!!
2006-08-06 21:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to have it whith you you should brak up (im 14 to)
2006-08-06 21:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋