to find a guy that you like...that actually likes you back and doesn't just lead you on? I'm always the girl that guys think they can just walk all over. Are all guys the same? I'm just lookin for a nice guy...is that too much to ask?
2006-08-06 14:39:00 · 15 answers · asked by Hollywood™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they're out there, sounds like you got burned and are still hurting from the experience. take time to heal the wounds, then be on the lookout, don't settle for second, he's out there and probably looking for you
2006-08-06 14:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by firechap20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all part of the dating game. Men play their games and women play theirs. Look at it this way. If men and women had each other figured out, would the persuit of romance be any fun? If you are looking for a nice guy here is three things you should try:
1) Do not look for them in a bar or any other activity where consuption of alcohol takes place.
2) Ask the tough questions on the first dates.
3) Observe how he treats other women.
Here are a couple you should ask a guy concerning women:
"What is your relationship with your mother and any sisters you may have?"
"What are your thoughts on chivalry?" LOL
2006-08-06 21:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are definately some real jerks out there.
But if you are repeating the same dance over & over, just with a different partner, what is that saying?
It says that you need to learn a new dance step. You are doing something to attract this kind of man. Or even if they don't start out that way, you are doing something that causes them to react that way. You see, we teach people how to treat us.
It's sometimes hard to understand what exactly you're doing, especially if you're nice, sweet & giving. And it's not something a person likes to hear. But look to see what you're doing in the relationships. Read a couple self-help books & if you can't make any sense out of them, there are good free or inexpensive counselors through different organizations in your area.
Email me if you need to.
Good luck.
2006-08-06 21:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys, arn't like that, i have been stuyding this topic that your talkin about. most women who r going through this thought there guy was perfect in the begining. and thats the key a man isnt perfect a women isnt either. guys who are the "man" and are the one all the girls want are usally who act like this because they know that they can allways have more or better so they can act like a jerk without sweatin it. the nerd of even the guy who's more laid-back and just likes to enjoy life are usally the ones who will stick around.
i personally wouldnt advice a movie to explian a sitaution but in this case i suggest John Tucker Must Die, simply b/c if you check out john tucker and why hes like why he is it will make more sense.
and when comes to guys who can take advantge of you, tell them you wanna wait about how fast your realtionship goes if they dont respect it, they dont respect you.
2006-08-06 21:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..you see there is no reason to rush things up.If guys failed to find you, it is their lost. Pray and wait for the guy the Lord has prepared for you. Be patient. It is not bad to be single. Go out and have fun. Enjoy your time and above all do whatever is pleasing to God's eyes and for sure He will give the right and perfect guy for you that will love you deeply. Don't close your doors for new acquaintances. Hope this helps. God bless!
2006-08-06 21:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by justurangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its too much to ask!!! You seem to have the same kind of luck that I do!!! Maybe you need to change some of your stategy. Its worth a try!!! Good Luck to you!!!
2006-08-06 21:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can I say guys are hard to understand and they probably think the same with us.
2006-08-06 21:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lil'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all guys are not the same there someone out there for you.You just dont know who but you'll find them hey he can even be your friend
2006-08-06 21:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya gotta watch the signs!
2006-08-07 01:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by lelynroberts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys only do what u let them, so if they walk all over you, you allowed it to happen......you'll eventually find what you're looking for....
2006-08-06 21:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋