Do you fight back, ignore him, try to settle it out, etc. I WANT HONEST ANSWERS!! DO NOT GIVE ME AN ANSWER THAT SOUNDS THE BEST, BUT IS NOT WHAT YOU ACTUALLY DO. I am going to ask my date when I do plan to date this question, and will be the deciding factor for if I would like to date her again or not.
2006-08-06 14:26:34 · 15 answers · asked by 120 IQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i tell him to shut the **** up and leave me alone for a minute until were both able to talk so that we can handle the argument like adults
2006-08-06 14:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. UMM... when my boyfriend and I argue (not often at all!) I have a very vicious spirit if it is something I truly, truly believe in. It really depends on what. If it has to do with moral opinions and he is totally and obviously wrong, I will fight! But usually it just ends with "That's a new way to look at it.... but I really think that....etc." hug and make up. If it has to do with how to do something, or directions, I usually just start laughing. We are so funny about those things. We can joke about something like, you know, a fake argument, and other people will of gotten mad, but we know that the other is just joking. We don't fight, we kind of debate on topics because we are both smart, and we know we love each other, so it's all good. An actual fight like, almost never happens, and when it does I get really snappy and quick. He'll laugh, or I'll just shrug off a comment, and we're done. The sting might stay for five minutes, but then we're off joking again. We can argue for the fun of it. It really depends on the guy, the girl, and the topic.
2006-08-07 09:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by ~S~ is for Stephanie! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a fueled litigator, I use to love a good argument. The wronger I was the more fun it was to try and convince him he's wrong. Thru the years, now, I do not care for consultation. So I now, let him rant and rave till he is red in the face. I just look at him, and listen. When he finishes, I calmly ask him "did you have a bad day, and who's a** chewing was that really for? Then he smiles and we go about what ever it is we are doing. Arguing is for the very young.
2006-08-06 21:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We let our anger go first. Than we sit down and compromise and talk it out. Compromise is the key to any relationship. Than we laugh how stupid we are when we hit our anger points and make cracks at each other about what was said. Never go to bed angry! talk it out even if it's 3 am and you gotta get up at 7 am. you maybe sleepy through out the day at work but at least you will come home to peace and nothing is better than seeing the one you love after a hard day of work and know all is settled and you can cuddle up and talk about your day instead of an angry issue!!
2006-08-06 21:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by jasmine m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he's trying to argue about. Sometimes I just laugh to myself and ignore it because he usually gets a little touchy if his family or boss is getting on his nerves. I guess I over look it when I know he isn't really mad at me , but just in a grouchy mood. On the other hand if he's acting like a meanie just to be that way I set him straight and he knows to just clam up and go someplace and sit down.....lol. I love him though and I know we can all be a little argumentative at times.
2006-08-06 21:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ignore him. It's normally not worth fighting over. Once he calms down then I talk to him. You shouldn't decide whether you date a girl or not based on this question...she could be a great girl and you might not give her the chance.
2006-08-06 21:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Su-Fi 4ever! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit I argue back but I never use curse words. I always try to talk things out in an adult manner, worse comes to worse I might just tell him to "shut up" or that he's being "such an a**. I'm a fairly nice person talking things out in a calm way are my way to go.
2006-08-06 21:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly' I am like a comelion.I will put up a good argument or debate but of course I want to win.INTENSITY levels will vary but I will win even if you think you have.Kinda like ridin' the surf.After all isn't that what you are after.
2006-08-06 22:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by oreo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the arguement is about. If its something stupid, I tell him to shut the f*#^k up. If its something worth fighting over, then bring it on, we're going round for round 'till the bell sounds...ll
2006-08-06 21:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ignore him and let him keep talking and venting his anger while he thinks about how foolish it is to try and argue with someone who makes no comment.
2006-08-06 21:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋