How do I tell my girlfriend that she is fat and needs to diet??

Question

Shes one helluva porker. I feel so embarrased to be around her in public and my friend Tod keeps making oinking noises.
What should I say?

Answer 1

You really should keep the mouth shut if you love her and wants her to stay with u. To diet and exercise is a personal choice, if u do it for the sake of someone else, it will never work.

Answer 2

You're the biggest jerk I've ever seen on this site.

First, if you know she's fat, then she already knows she's fat, so there's no need to tell her at all, or ask a stupid question like "omg guys how do I tell her?".

Second, if you have a girlfriend, you should love and respect her, and you should be loyal to her, and if you don't you shouldn't be with her. You should have told your friend to STFU the first time he made an oinking noise, and you should have beat the sh*t out of him the next time he did it, and you shouldn't even be his friend anymore.

Grow up. No wonder you're woman's fat, she must be depressed because you're such a jerk. You're lucky you haven't driven her to suicide yet! You're luckier yet that she hasn't dumped your @ss.

Answer 3

If you are so embarrassed by this girl why do you stay with her you are only hurting or maybe even using her? Was she heavy when you started dating there is more to a relationship than weight ask yourself what attracted you to her in the beginning.I just find it hard to believe if you really cared about her you wouldn't be calling her names. Love her for who she is not what she looks like

Answer 4

Instead of letting her know that she is fat, why don't you suggest that you both try a diet??? Suggest that you both go out for a walk in the evening. What does she eat in the evening??? Does she eat snack food in the evening??? Try and be supportive. If it was the other way around, how would you feel???

Answer 5

Im with the girls on this one you should love her for who she is and not how she is, get me? obviously your just into her looks all that should matter is you love her and she loves you. But if shed wayed like 150 and now she weighs like 200 than say "baby i think we should go to a track and run miles together" dont be a asshoe and say you need to go run. remember weight is like the worst thing you could say to a female anyways it shouldnt matter in the first place. And tell your so called friend to get a LIFE!

Answer 6

Maybe shes really not that fat. One of my ex's called me fat all of the time and i only weigh 120 and im 5'7''. So maybe she's not even that bad. Or you could start going to the gym and asking her to come along. Also, eat better when your around her. Good luck hun.

Answer 7

You tell her that shes fat and needs to lose weight. Her comfort in a relationship is no excuse to let herself go. Simple.

Answer 8

Tell Tod to shut up. You should apreciate your gf for who she is, not what she looks like. And you should defend her when people make fun of her.

Answer 9

Tell her the truth. Obviously you love her, so just tell her. Say its because youre worried about her health. or you can just hang over her house and get on her computer and google BMI Calculator and be like, oooo, whats this?? And put in your height and weight. Itll tell u if youre over weight. then ask hers and be like,Oh, it says youre fat. And its unhealthy.

Answer 10

hay you don't if you think she is getting a bet big ask here to go for walks or work out with you at the gum at less you are saying gone me and giving her support but if you truly love her it shouldn't matter