Ok i know this might sound stupied but today i was chillen with my crush/roomate and my brother flew in from texas and brung this girl that he knew well anyways my brother doesnt know that i like my roommate alot and he is trying to set that girl up with my crush and i think that he likes her and i know she like him and now im sooo jelous i dunno what to do i dont even know her and i already hate her. I told him that i liked him and that i dont want her in my house or see them togethor and he just laughed and said that he really likes her and wants to get to know her better and i dunno what to do now someone pls help?
2006-08-06 14:24:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok the fact that he laughed when you told him your feelings is a clear sign that he is either A. not interested in you or B. a complete jerk who is not worth your time, if not both. So he goes on a date with this girl. Big deal. He doesn't sound like the nicest guy to begin with. If he had any respect for you, he would've either told you that he wasn't interested in you, or he would've refused the date with the other girl. Don't waste your time!
2006-08-06 14:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your crush/roommate doesn't care about you and doesn't care about your feelings. The proof is his saying that he's going to get to know this girl better. Why are you and he roommates? It would be best if you didn't live with him. As long as you do, you will continue to feel hurt when he dates this other girl.
You have to realize that you 2 don't have a g/f-b/f relationship and that he isn't interested in being your b/f. You need to start looking for someone else.
2006-08-06 21:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your crush know that he IS your crush? Or did he just find out?
You seem to be protecting a relationship that only existed in your mind.
Takes two to make a couple. I think you might have acted too late. Your brother didn't know, and your crush is fair game unless he has agreed to being in a relationship with you, which doesn't seem to have happened.
All's fair in love and war.
2006-08-06 21:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by brian k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know what?
stop holding back. you gots to tell him how you feel clearly! how will he know that you like him that much?
it's better to tell him so that he knows and you can see how he feels about you and or the situation.
you have to tell him before it goes far with this new girl. he probably thinks you are joking about the whole thing,just let him know..
wouldn't it feel better to know how he feels about you and him than not telling him at all the right way and dealing with it for sometime in your life? even if he puts you down after you tell him,don' give up,there r other fish in the sea.
PS. that new girl,if she aint staying forever, thats a good thing.
good luck
2006-08-06 21:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes her and wants to pursue things farther then there is nothing you can do about it. You will have to play the waiting game and see how things work out between them. If you two are meant to be together then you will...eventually...if not then he wasnt the one for you any ways. Good luck!
2006-08-06 21:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch, you can't force anyone to like you unfortunately. I'm sorry, but the only thing you can do is just forget it. I don't think anything is going to change, but if there's any chance of that happening, be close. Who knows what will happen.
2006-08-06 21:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey... right now all you need is a hug... he's gone for the time being... he'll get over that chick and eventually see his dream girl is sitting right in his house! for now, get out and have some fun, get totally wasted and hung over then find some guy to hang out w/ while this guy's getting over that chick. dont worry about it, its not going to last between them, no sweat!
-jasmine w
2006-08-06 21:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think you are stupid because i have seen that problem with almost every sis round the world. Don't like her OK but try to understand your bro feelings and respect her only for that.
2006-08-06 21:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Saybi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he likes her what can you do about it. The only advice I can give you is find someone else who is interested in you. Do it now before you get heartbroken.
2006-08-06 21:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first tell your bro whats up... then maybe he can do something or say something and they wont like eachother.. if that dont work then the girl lives in texas and ur his roommate!! so hm hm!! lol
2006-08-06 21:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by TIFFUhhNEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋