I am trying to break up with my bf although I still love him. We have not been in contact for more than 2 months. I cant stand the days of staring at my phone, waiting for him to call and end up crying myself to sleep. He's a divorcee and I'm afraid that he will go back to his wife one day. Although he assured me that he wants to be with me and start a family but I still feel that our relationship is just sexual and that he just wants to have sex with me. I feel that I'm just a toy that he's using to spite his wife. I feel so miserable thinking of him everyday. What shall I do? Shall I end this and pretend that it never happened before? :<
2006-08-06 14:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by crystalz_82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It happens to me before. You shld really leave this guy.. go out with ur friends, start forgetting bout him.. Its hard we all know, but there is no happy ending for you and him. It took me almost 2 months to forget about him, all thanks to my friends. They were there for me, cheering me up. I lost weight, i cried all night. Like you, i hold on to my phone hoping for a msg or a call from him. Life is totally miserable. But i'm glad i'm out of it, because u will feel much happier, and you find that life still goes on without this guy. There are better guys out there and this is true. So gal, start going out and looking for guys who really appreciates for who you are.
2006-08-06 14:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by smilepeepz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when comes to love is always complicated. Well, I think if he really loves you, he will want to be close to you. Since he did not even call you for more than 2 months, is best you just let go. Leave the past behind and move with your life. Go out with friends, have some activities or maybe enrol for a course you long wanted.... Life might be even brighter without him and I believe that there are better guys out there that deserve your love.
2006-08-06 23:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Trecillia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you shld leave this guy. if he really love you, will he let you wait for more than 2 months without contacting you? I don't think so. it is never easy to forget someone you have being in love with and it is a painful process too. Do join yr friends with their outings and put all the unhappiness behind you. I believe yr friends and family members were be there for you and giving you all the support you may required.
Life still have to go on and you have to carry on with your life. Don't ever let one guy affect your life. I believe that there are a lot more guys out there who will treasure you more than your current boyfriend. Just move forward with your life.
2006-08-06 23:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why you so easily got cheated by your boyfriend? Now you have realised and you should take immediate action to leave him at once. join some of your friends for outing or maybe look for a course to study. Or get yourself involved in somethings, don't think back. Don't worry someone will punish that "flirt". This relationship is not your worth, always blamed yourself and answer for the consequences.
2006-08-07 05:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and get a life. look for one without attachment
starts by thinking of in the first place how did you fall for him.
By the way, if the relationship is sexual.then you will need to forget him more as it will not last. as he ages, he will go for a even better sexual partner and there are no way that you can keep up with this sexual dinosaur
2006-08-06 23:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When love is concerned, the more we try to forget, the more we can't let go. Stop staring at your phone waiting for him to call, this just shown that you can't let go. Why should you try to forget him? Trust me, you will never forget. You should have other friends to talk and go out with beside him. Just treat him as one of your memory and continues with your life. You can talk to me if you really can't find any friends to talk to.
2006-08-06 22:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think what you need is a rebounder, a new person to cheer you up and let you realise you can live happily without your x byfrd.
Trust your women instincts. If you think it's for sex that he is with you, issue the ultimatum to him by asking him to married you and see what's the response. It 's a gamble that will paid out win or lose.
2006-08-07 02:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋