Please help.. It's killing me... I don't want him back, but I can't help but to think about him all the time!
I just moved so I don't live by him anymore but I moved into the country so there really isn't like any teenage guys around here, and I don't think I want a new relationship just yet.
I think it hurts so bad because he was my first EVERYTHING and then he broke my heart...
I have listend to; sad songs, 'I hate you' songs, and break up songs but I still think about him... PLEASE help!
Thank you all in advance!
2006-08-06 13:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by ~Michelle~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL @ first answer... actually I already did while we were dating... then like 2 days before we broke up I made out with his other best friend right in front of him hehe
2006-08-06 13:59:20 · update #1
Age will solve this one. I've had broken hearts, obsessions, lost loves, near misses, all solved by time.
Right now, this will mean nothing to you, but as time passes, you will be able to put distance from this event.
Time heals all wounds...........not just for breakfast anymore.
2006-08-06 13:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by brian k 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋
I cant speak for the girls , since I am a guy but all of us have been there and felt that way. The best medicine is new attraction, now I dont mean sex, just that great feeling you get when you meet someone new you like. But please be kind to us guys, dont just use and ditch the new guy. Love, mostly new puppy love can break those feelings from your head and make it easier. Time heals all wounds too dear, it gets better, I assure you
2006-08-06 21:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by powerful one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I felt the same way. I could not get my x girlfriend out my mind. All my boys would often bring her up so what i did was call over some friend females and males and I had a fake funeral service for my X. I berried all the pics my Friends had of us and we all said a few words. after the services we got drunk and now I hooked up with two of my X's girl friends. Now I don't think of her. RIP!!!!! LOL
2006-08-06 22:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well stop listening to the i hate you songs because that will just make you think about how much more you hate him. listen to happy songs. go out with friends, family, go to the movies, or swimming, anything physical that you have to concentrate on too might help. you can never completely get him out of your head but those things might gelp you relax and have fun.
good luck
-Emily
2006-08-06 21:03:19 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try to trick yourself into not wanting to think about him anymore...force yourself to think about him, look at pictures, listen to songs, etc. for hours and hours and hours, until you are totally sick of it, then keep doing it. Go WAY overboard. Hopefully you'll start to associate him with the feeling of being tired of him.
2006-08-06 20:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i am right there wit u i no how u feel it jus takes time baby girl time heels everythin u will find the right guy one day dont worry im sure ur still young good luck n it helps to read a dr phill book 4 real its helped me alot
2006-08-06 20:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by my heart belongs to a sailor! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you. Everytime I look at 106 and Park on BET, the host look just like my ex boyfriend. Everything from his smile to the way he act. I try not to look at 106 and Park no more, but I can't help but to turn it on and say damn, he look just like him. He's out my mind but I see him when that show is on, you got it easy.
2006-08-06 21:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by B.A.P.S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i think it's better to try not to get him off your mind.. ya know? cause the more love, hate, and break up songs you listen to, the more you'll think of him. you just have to let it all wear off.. it's going to take time.. but trying to make it go away faster won't help. just give yourself and your heart time to heal. :)
2006-08-06 20:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by rach :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get your first love out of your mind, because he was the FIRST, you just need to sit down & give yourself a good talking to & find a way to put him in the past, where he belongs,
2006-08-06 20:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new bf.
2006-08-06 20:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋