During my pregnancy, the father of the baby wanted nothing to do with either of us. Now that the baby is here and I started seeing someone else who loves me and my son very much...the father suddenly wants back in and claims to love us both. What do I do? He is a violent person and I don't want him around. He threatens to take me to court if I don't give in. I don't trust him with any sort of custody over the baby.
2006-08-06 13:49:29 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Move away, dont be scared of his threats
if he really loved you guys, he wouldnt take you to court, u think he got the ballas and money to spend..haha
Get Evidence and prove he's violent, you also need alot of child support money too so yeah, F him up with all he got..
HAH
ignore his as*s. love your new man and stay on the look out for that other guy
2006-08-07 15:43:10 · answer #1 · answered by pinoydj619 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you take him to court. Get some legal papers that say when and if he gets to see the baby. You need to go to court to protect yourself and your child if this guy can be violent. It isn't going to look good to the judge if he is threatening you, that's for sure!
2006-08-06 13:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing things as you have been. He can threaten all he wants, but unless he can find you as an unfit mother, he will never get your son. Besides that you have to think about the fact that he didn't want anything to do with his own child. What do you think that will say to the courts?
2006-08-06 15:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Benn there. Stick to your guns and do what you feel is right for your child. Fact is, in most states, since you and father weren't married, its up to him to prove paternity before he is given any rights. That can be costly for him and he may not even bother. I'd tell him to do what he thinks he needs to and let the courts deal with it if he has the money.
2006-08-06 13:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by kobygirl_76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have any records of his violence there is not much you can do. He had rights to the child, as long as he is PAYING If financially. If you have records, you can plea to the judge to have any visitation supervised.
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There is one option if you really do fear for your child that I would recommend. Once again, if he really is a threat. That is to move out of state. If you have full custody of the child then there is absolutely nothing he can do to stop you. This would make it very difficult for him to have any sort of visitation.
2006-08-06 13:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to f*uck off tell him go ahead take me to court. make sure you write down every thing he has said and done to you that was violent. give it to the judge. make sure you get him for hella child support too. he is a loser and abviously you did alot better with the other guy. the babies daddy is just jelous. and he needs to grow the f*uck up. no dont let him try to be daddy again. he can go to court and fight you for it dont worry about it. he has to prove you to be an unfit mother to be able to take that child away from you. dont worry about it hun. but make sure you tell them every thing that he has done to you ok good luck hun. take care!!! let me know what happens.
2006-08-06 15:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll make him a deal. You sign off on the child support, if he signs off on his parental rights. If he's that bad, you have to give something to get something.
2006-08-06 15:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take his butt to court get sole custody and child support stay with your new bf and good luck
2006-08-06 14:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Moo moo I'm a chicken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like it. yet place play in public is greater effectual. gf is going to bar on my own. flirts with multiple adult men then bf is provided in and hits on her. and interior of quarter-hour is making out to the factor the place they get kicked out of the bar. no longer thats warm
2016-10-01 13:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, i've been in the EXACT same situation. stay w/ ur new man. thts wt i did. however, ur old guy still owes u financial support 4 the kid. please take my advice! it will all wrk out in the long run.
2006-08-06 13:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋