Alright...My problem is this...I met this guy last summer...When I first met him I really didn't like him..ya he was good looking, but he wasn't anything special...We started hanging out through a friend...and I started to like him..he added his number into my cell..and he started texting me almost every day..than he started calling me babe..and one night at his friends b-day party he gave me the nickname "Stumbles" months go by and he askes me if I like him..So I tell him, ya..and he tells me that he likes me too, but he isn't sure if he wants a g/f right now..Out of nowhere he stops talking to me...I found out that he started seeing someone...and talking to him ended...Until maybe a couple of months ago (before I slept with the other guy) Msn's me telling me to add his new cell phone to my cell..than he tells me that he misses "stumbles" and that we should hang out and drink at his house..I don't know what to do..part of me whats to, but I am not too sure. I really missed him.
2006-08-06 13:33:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give yourself a little more credit and self respect. He went with the option he was interested in, and when it went bad, he took his "fall-back" option, which is you.
If you decide to give it a go, he'll be there as long as it takes for him to find something he's more interested in, then it's c ya.
Tell him better to "stumble" than to "fall" for his baloney.
2006-08-06 13:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Welcome to life. There are no right or wrong answers here. Do what you feel is right. See him, dump him, whatever. It could work out, with you ending up married to the fellow for the next 70 years, or it could be just a little fling. It could be nothing. That's the beauty of life. Perhaps the last time was just him getting ready for relationships (it takes guys a little while to work out how they operate, if he wasn't ready for a relationship then, he may have grown into needing one at this point). Perhaps he's just desparate. Is he worth the risk? Would you regret not going?
You know what you would like to do. It is the right thing to do in this case? Perhaps. Could it be the wrong thing? Perhaps. Can you take care of yourself and evaluate the situation? Yes.
2006-08-06 20:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by drslowpoke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i really think that he's using you, if not anything.
someone who just stops talking to you without an apology, shouldn't be tolerated. i mean, my arguement isn't great, but listening to your situation, i have the feeling that he thinks he has the power in the relationship, to start it and stop it whenever he wants, and not really caring about your feelings. you should definetly NOT see him again.
good luck!
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2006-08-06 20:39:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should listen to your gut feelings. When you 1st met him you didn't like him and part of you doesn't want to have him back. Sounds like you are his in between girlfriend. Tell him NO!
2006-08-06 20:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by nutnut1957 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself, do ya deserve this guy n this kinda treatment?...
...Or can ya wait for someone who treats you better, makes you feel real special?
This guy does NOT do that --- unless I am much mistaken
Don't under-value yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-06 20:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by laylaUnplugged 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard question...i think that you should do what ever your hearat is telling you to do!
2006-08-06 20:37:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no se
2006-08-06 20:40:53 · answer #7 · answered by golden_mermaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋