Honestly, at times, I feel as if I'm totally unwanted; as if no soul in the world has a liking to me. Depression is a fitting word in that sense of my state of late, but I'm not really depressed. I'm in the middle ground; sad, but happy simultaneously. I want someone my age to love, but at the same time I'm content with my life. At this time, I'm asking you just whats wrong with me!? Trust me when I say I do NOT boast. I've been told that I'm handsome young man, intelligently structured, mentally matured, old for my age, I look older than I am, I write excellent poetry...I'm not going to continue on that list simply because thats not what matters to me. Since day one of my life, I've always wanted someone to care for, but never have I had anyone who truly cared for me. Is the fact that I wear black dim my appeal to others? I'm not gothic. OR, is it because I'm half asian half american!!?!?! I'm not sure to what extent you can answer this question, but would you (honestly) take me?
2006-08-06 12:56:04 · 10 answers · asked by Somebody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For anyone who might want to contact me, my email adress is manslayerspartan@yahoo.com. I know that Yahoo!answers does'nt always give the most room. I'd love to chat.
2006-08-06 13:31:58 · update #1
it all depends on the female and what standards you have about what you want from the lucky lady...some people are scared and offended of the gothic look. but it is really just being yourself....don't change the way you act around people let them see you for who you are....i would like it if my husband wrote poetry for me...keep looking on the brighter side
2006-08-06 13:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you go to a gym and exercise it will improve your outlook and make you feel a lot happier. You will also meet people your age there. Just make friends before you try to have a relationship. That will happen naturally. Do things that you like and have fun with. You will meet people when you are doing this. Make friends with both men and women. The right woman will come along for you. And I think that Asian/American is probably very attractive.
2006-08-06 13:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by papricka w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you! I wear black all the time,and I love the color. Really, just stay you and be true to yourself. Poetry is beautiful.....my husband writes stuff for me, and I keep it all! It is a very romantic trait in a man. You will find someone special to love, and someone in return to love you. Show interest in other people, and keep up with current events so you will have something to talk about with people. The best to you.
2006-08-06 13:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by brokenarrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying too hard.. relax and be yourself.. the right person will come along.. be patience... If you are too busy being depressed or negative.. you may miss or not even see the possibilities right in front of your eyes... I like the way you write and presented yourself in this question.. you will be alright!! Take Care
Ohhh PS.. real women love poerty from real men!!
2006-08-06 13:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm gonna level with you. You need to stop wallowing in emotion and feelings and get into living alittle. Real men dont write poetry. They really dont, stop doing it, you're just punishing yourself. You need to get a girlfriend right away, but if you come off as depressing, then she wont bite. Good luck man, get moving.
2006-08-06 13:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you go with for to strengthen your self? What do you mean, Black hair + Blue eyes = appealing. Your a fortunate man or woman. BQ: set aside a time and a place so you might earnings daily
2016-10-01 13:31:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn to love yourself no matter what other people tell you. You really have to be fully comfortable with who you are before you find someone else to love. When you love yourself you will find someone to love and that loves you too.
2006-08-06 13:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself. someones bound to like u someday its just not yet. u cant change ur personality or itll be like lying to the person who likes u. u cant lie 4ever and it has nothing to do ur background or what u wear.
2006-08-06 13:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. In all seriousness, email me. My best friend would LOVE you.
2006-08-06 13:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-06 13:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋