I HAVE NOW ENTERED A RELATIONSHIP AND MY PARTHNER IS PRESSURING ME INTO HAVIN INTERCOURSE BUT I'M NOT READY FOR THIS KIND OF COMMMITTMENT WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
2006-08-06 12:44:06 · 18 answers · asked by thicksauce 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explain to your problem.if he/she can't accept it, then perhapes he/she isn't the right person for you.
2006-08-06 12:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. The "NO" always wins. There should be NO PRESSURE to have sex. That is a red flag right there. So tell him not now, you are not ready, and if he runs off with someone else...realize this YOU DO NOT NEED TO BARTER YOUR BODY FOR A MAN. A real man will wait for you. Not pressure you, or seduce you.
2006-08-06 12:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel like it is the right time then dont do it. If ur partner doesnt understand they were not right for u in the first place.... you should always be able to talk about this kind of stuff with them and if they care about you they will wait till your ready!!
2006-08-06 12:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by sporty19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to do so, then DON'T do it. You may regret this the rest of your life. If the other person is not willing to wait, then they are not worth being with. Physical interaction should happen when both parties are comfortable, willing, and ready, not when one is making demands of it. Respect yourself more than your partner is respecting you.
2006-08-06 12:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep on saying NO until you're ready! If this person keeps pressurising you they are not for you. There should be consent on both sides. Maybe they're only interested in sleeping with you and then he'll dump you.
2006-08-06 12:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by puzzledfemale! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! you should never give in...if he truly loves you,he would respect your decision...Remember you have your own rights to this..so be strong and make it straight to him..if he ditches you for this..it is ok..he is immature..it shows he puts sex the first thing in a relationship which is not worth it...Talk to him and i am sure he will understand if he loves and respects you...
2006-08-06 12:58:03 · answer #6 · answered by rubika r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u feel ur not ready, then it should be that way. dont be ready just because he is, u gonna jump off a cliff cause everyone else is too?
do what u feel is right for u
2006-08-06 12:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by Kurtis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!! You shouldnt be forced into something u dont wanna do and if they make u then u shouldnt be with them!!! If he really liked then he wouldnt be pushing u and u need to tell him ur not ready.... if u do it when ur not ready ull regret it.....wait
2006-08-06 12:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's pressuring you- Its not worth it. Find someone who will wait until your ready.
2006-08-06 14:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kale<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain that to him if he really cares for you he will understand that and give you the time you need to decide when you are ready.
2006-08-06 12:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, you are not ready. If it is love, your partner will understand. Otherwise find someone who does understand you and does love you.
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2006-08-06 12:48:39 · answer #11 · answered by H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋