relying on instincts?????????????

Question

i am a great believer of relying on your instincts, but im a bit upside down at the moment. when it comes to love is it possible for your instincts toi be all over the place, like your heart? should you believe what your instincts tell you at this time can they be wrong? love has its ways of affecting you?

Answer 1

love confuses the hell out of you and it doesnt help when you get mixed signals from the person in your life, they say one thing and do another they say trust me i wont do that to you and yet they do , what are you supposed to do when all you feel is an all consuming love for them, your head says one thing your hart says another. Instincts go on melt down

Answer 2

As It happens Im in same boat as u, ive just had to let somebody go as recent as yesterday cause her instincts tell her no im not worth it and apperntyl i give off mixed singnals which aint good. So she has fallen in love with another and told me to back off now, which hurt very much. As for ur situation only just come across this experience myself so it hard to work out what the hell did i do for the last 10 months. Guess i wasted my time and never should have met her.

Answer 3

So what does your instincts tell? My instincts tell me your relying on the wrong thing. Girls don't care about your instincts. Use your head or someone will use your heart like a yo-yo.

Answer 4

The heart and the head argue too much - your instincts come from neither. If you're unsure of anything, trust your instincts.

Answer 5

When Your in love there`s a tendency to let Your heart lead,especially women,to push aside instincts,warning signs.Try listening to Your head it`s more logical.Put Yourself first if Your feeling low,if they make You feel the opposite of ecstatic too.It`s like a see-saw.Needs re-balancing.I don`t think instincts are wrong.(that`s why there instincts!)

Answer 6

yes.

love is very powerful and it can be very confusing. but the only thing you can do is hold on and follow your instincts no matter how convoluted they may be at the time.

love is a primal emotion. even very primitave creatures have a concept of love (or lust such as in primitave creature e.g. crocodiles).

at any rate the only thing you can do is understand that everybody who has ever loved has felt bewildered, lost and confused at some time.
if you haven't you're just wierd...
at any rate... I think that you need to hold on and follow your emotions. if you love this person, then you love them. they may be very different, but they are who you love, and love is blind, love trancends all boundries.
be they weath, distance, age, race or relegion.

in conclusion I give you the following advice:
love wholely and completely
love people for who they are inside
love for ever and for always,
and never, never give up.

Answer 7

I have found out the hard way that 9 out of 10 times your heart and gut never lie to you,

it is possible to love the wrong person but your gut will tell you if there is something wrong.

its only when you are with someone you love and you don't feel that there is something wrong can you relax with them total and really open up to them.

that is when the good-times start :) when you can truly love someone and know they love you back

Answer 8

the first instinct is usually the correct one. not only was this tru for Eddie Murphy in Coming to America but it's stood me in good stead for my life. the only times I've truly suffered is when I ignore my first instinct.

Answer 9

If you are upside down at the moment then you should maybe use your head a liitle more than your heart.

Answer 10

i am not sure waht your sayin r u sayin should u beleave your instincts well if so i think you should. but thats me but also go with your heart