2006-08-06 12:21:08 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might as well. Really, you would be doing nothing wrong in this situation. He might be, but you wouldn't be. You DID NOT make a commitment to anyone. You DID NOT tell anyone you'd be faithful. You DID NOT promise to honor anyone. You DID NOT enter into a marriage covenant. His marriage is not your deal; it's not your business; and it's not your problem! So, rock his world, I say; you have nothing to feel guilty about.
2006-08-06 12:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Turd Ferguson 2 · 4⤊ 8⤋
Consider the ramifications. If the guy is sleeping with you, he may be sleeping with others too. That raises the stakes with regard to sexually transmitted diseases. Is it really worth it to risk your own health for a bit of fun? Condoms do not prevent or reduce certain STD's.
What about his family? How will affect his wife or children if he's found out? Could you forgive yourself if his family fell apart because he was playing around?
Would a wife forgive her husband an affair just because he was "really good-looking"? No way. That level of betrayal is just too much for most women.
It's not okay to sleep with a married person, even if they are separated. There's always the chance of a reconciliation.
Aren't there enough good looking divorced guys and widowers out there?
2006-08-06 12:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rob K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it.
1. The guy is married but he will cheat on his wife. So you're just a bit of fun on the side. So he hurts his wife (if she finds out - and they usually do) and he views you as just a bit of 'recreational sport'. Feel insulted or do you harbour illusions of a committed relationship? Er, no...
2. Sleep with a guy because he's nice-looking? Man, I think the woman at the end my street is a looker but I'm not going to sleep with her (not that she would). Why? She's a right wing bigot.
3. It might not be cool to say this, but there are a lot of nasty diseases out there. Plus the ever-real danger of getting pregnant.
DON'T DO IT! EVER!
2006-08-06 17:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!
1) Married men that cheat on their wives are probably losers, and I know that I would not want to sleep with a man that I know is sleeping with someone else...
2) You must be pretty desperate to want a married man... there are so many single guys out there that you would probably be interested in!
*If you don't stop sleeping with that man for yourself do it for that poor woman who has no idea
2006-08-06 12:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by tdamroze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a red flag. Pretend for a moment, that you are married, and that it is your husband who is doing this. How would you feel about him then? Remember, what goes around comes around, and it usually hits harder the second time around. Spare yourself the drama and the heartache. Any man who makes a permanent position out of his mistress creates an open position. Always be polite, though, and graciously decline further communication with him. You need to find somene that is fully available to you. As long as he's still with her, he's still hers. Respect yourself more than he does.
2006-08-06 12:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats NO really dont do that omg that is so wrong look at it this way. okay you are married okay and your man is lookin good and everything well this girl comes up to u and says is it okay if i sleep with your man. okay how would that make u feel?? if your man was sleepin around on u and u and him was married! i can tell u how it would make me feel i would want to go shoot myself. i mean come on
2006-08-06 12:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It's never okay to sleep with a married man unless you're his wife.
2006-08-06 14:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by Alecto 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. It's not ok. It's not ok to cheat if you're in a serious relationship with someone. And just as much, it's wrong of you to take part in someone else cheating. It's a $hitty thing to do.
2006-08-06 12:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should it be ok if they are good looking.
if you think its ok and im guessing you have someone in mind then nothing anyone says to you on here is going to put you off.
just be carefull and remember what goes around comes around
2006-08-06 12:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by magic_monkey78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you have someone in mind!
If he is that ready to cheat on his wife so easily and is sooo good looking ... you won't be the only one he is sleeping with!!!
Depends whether you can live with yourself after really i suppose ... or cope with the hurt when you find out its just sex!
cos thats all it normally is with a married man!
2006-08-06 14:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by jane b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO. imagine if you were married and had kids, how would you feel about someone sleeping with your husband??
2006-08-06 12:30:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋