my boyfriend got a new job about 3months ago,he works everyday and gets off really late.he calls me when he gets off work and we talk for 10minutes then he falls asleep.on the weekends he goes out with his friends.today he ask me if i wanted to go to the movies i said sure ,the movie started at 4:30 he never came for me ,i finally called him and he said he fell asleep . i was so hurt by the fact he never really has time fo r me ? what the hell should i do ? im sad and confused?
2006-08-06 12:04:57 · 21 answers · asked by apple pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have a serious talk with the guy, because obviously you are in a serious relationship with this guy, then you need to know that you understand that he has a new job and all, but that you need to know if he is going to have time for you, or do you just need to move on?? Just be straight forward with him, if he really wants to be with you then he will find a way to make things work out. And don't be afraid to ask him or tell him how you are feeling. Go for it.
2006-08-06 12:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by GREEN EYES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hun but I'd find another dude for sure. Like the first girl said...I understand him sleeping after work and sh*t but then he goes out with his friends and has no time for you? That's not right. Actually before finding another guy, maybe try talking to your b/f first. Maybe there's something going on with him, emotionally or maybe he's just not happy with the relationship anymore. If he ends up says nothings wrong and it's just his job (coughBULLSH*Tcough) I'd call his bluff and end it. Trust me there are tons of guys out there who will make time for you no matter what! I know it's easier said then done since you have been together for 2 years, but honestly hun you deserve WAY better. Good luck!
2006-08-06 19:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by MissLee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww. You poor thing. My bf sometimes doesn't have a lot of time for me either. Well, if he works really late, it isn't really his fault that he falls asleep on the phone. You should tell him that you understand he has to work a lot, but that you would like to spend time with him. Even though he hangs out with his friends on the weekends, you are his girlfriend. He needs to spend time with you, too. He should hang out with you on the weekends, either with his friends or just the two of you alone. Either way, you need some attention, too, and you need to let him know that. Good luck!
2006-08-06 19:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Koneko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time! This is only going to last alittle longer than 3 months but tell him to take a day off 2 spend time wit u! Or maybe u should go to his crib and make breakfast or dinner for him and u will already have spent time wit him!
2006-08-06 19:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 years? Why hasn't the topic of marriage become a reality? This is no way to treat a girlfriend. Tell him you need more quality time with your boyfriend. If he doesn't want to be the one to do it, you'll find someone else. Get married or break up.
2006-08-06 19:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels that way but he works a lot he might have feel a sleep get him to come to your house or you go to his house and be together when he is off! Tell him how you feel if he really cares about you then he will change!
2006-08-06 19:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to spend a little time apart way from him and not call him for a little while so you can see if he miss you are even cares a little bite about you not calling him.
2006-08-06 19:15:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that his actions are selfish and that you feel like a piece of meat because you don't feel cherished and that you need companionship. Ask him how yo both can work on this situation to change it. If he isn't willing, maybe you should dump him.
2006-08-06 19:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Hi T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like "awaken now" said. You take care of the parts he has trouble with. You are in a relationship, meaning one hand washes the other, you scratch my back and I do yours and all that, not?
2006-08-06 19:24:18 · answer #9 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about you think and if he ignores you then the best thing to do is leave him. Maybe he does not want you anymore. Because you know how men are. They are a.ss holes. Yes and think they can have anyone.
2006-08-06 19:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋