I am a to be Junior bridsmaid in my uncle and aunts wedding do you think this is wrong that she is letting a guy be in her wedding even though they cheated on each other and anyways so i was saying about being a junior bridsmaid i will becoming a teen next year i am gaurenteed(SP?) in the wedding but they don't have anyone to dance with me or walk down the aisle with and but everyone else has a guy to walk/dance with to the wedding even the flower girl and i am really mad at my aunt(not really) so how can i get her to choose someone for me and the wedding is next year sept 29 and there is only one guy that is my hiegth and only about my age i am sooooooooooooooooooo mad >: (((((
2006-08-06 12:04:40 · 6 answers · asked by J3nn@ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, well...you have many concerns here.
First...you must keep quiet about who cheated with who, never be the bearer of news like that...nobody likes a snitch, never tell or repeat it to anyone.
As for being the Jr.bridesmaid you get to be the only "princess" in the group and if you behave like a proper little lady throughout the whole ceremony you will get to stand out and get more attention than anyone else in the bridal party.
As for having no one to dance with...you should mention this to the future bride. Perhaps she and the groom will arrange for all the groomsmen to dance with you during the reception so you won't feel left out. I hope that helps. Most important, this is an important ceremony of life for your aunti and you have big job to do and it is exciting and not hard. Lots of young ladies would love to be in your shoes. Be a perfect little lady and enjoy yourself. Gee, you will be in just about ALL the pictures too.
2006-08-10 16:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as walking down the aisle with someone- I dont believe that height should play a big part in who should walk with you donw the aisle. Maybe your aunt has it planned for you to walk down the aisle alone for a special reason, maybe so everyone can see just how precious you truly are! In regards to dancing, I am pretty sure you will be hand in hand with plenty of dance partners at the reception.
i would not be mad at your aunt, especially since the wedding is so far away, she may have not yet finalized all of her plans. I say be patient, and if nothing has changed by June, ask her if it is still bothering you- but i think there just may be a surprise reason for you to walk by yourself...
2006-08-14 09:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your aunt about this. Tell her how you feel...maybe sh ecan work this out. On the other hand ....there are alot of weddings like this. In my my son walked down the isle by himself and my matron of honor walked down the isle with my daughter. Maybe you and the flower girl can walk down the isle together? As far as the dancing maybe someone will be at the wedding that you can dance with that isn't in the wedding.
2006-08-14 07:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Love not hate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to have a groomsman to dance with . . you can bring a friend with you to the reception and dance with him . . even tho you are young, I am sure you must have a friend that would be willing to come for free food . .lol . . if not, ask you dad to dance with you and that will be just as special . . you can't tell your aunt how to run her wedding . . .
2006-08-06 12:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-08-28 11:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask you're aunt if you're uncle could use another groomsmen.so that way you would have someone to talk with down the aisle.and also dace with at the reception.good luck
2006-08-06 12:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋