Actually i love him too.how can i recover the relationship?
he is very upset and disappointed. he doesn't mind age differance at all. what should i do?
2006-08-06 11:59:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should tell him 1) that you're married, 2) that you love your husband, and 3) to leave you alone.
Then, you should do what it takes to work on your marriage until you fix it or decide that you want out.
2006-08-06 12:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your married...you shouldnt do anything. Why not think about your husband and get your head out of the clouds and back into reality for a change. If you love your husband, that should be enough and you wont need that other guy. I dont even understand how you could even ask that. Do what you want, but i say, the damage has been done, dont hurt him again. AND DONT CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND
2006-08-06 19:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that in love with him then you need to do the right thing first: talk to your husband and make the first steps in ending your relationship officially before you get involved in the relationship with the younger man.
2006-08-06 19:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!!!! You are married....Why even consider recovering the relationship? You need to come clean and tell your husband what kind of a woman he is married to so he can start a divorce and expose you for who you really are!
2006-08-06 19:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, enough said. "What God put together, let no man put asunder". Sounds like you need to have a serious talk with your husband, ask yourself why you fell in love with your husband. Try to reconnected and reminise on things that happen with your husband. Sound like your marriage bonds have become weak. I'll pray for you ((hugs))
2006-08-06 19:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is in the first two words of your question: YOU'RE MARRIED! You owe your husband committment, and your boy-toy nothing. You sound like a spoiled brat. Get over yourself, make it work with your husband, or spend your life hopping around from boy to boy trying to find someone to 'make ME happy'.
2006-08-06 19:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop leading him on and tell him....its because ur married... saying about the age gap is not a reason, or a way to put him off..... if you want to stay married that is......im not so sure you do ..from what u say..just remember .... when the novelty wears off...????? well have a good think ...how all relationships start.. and how they go once the novelty wears off...
2006-08-06 19:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is only a number, well as long as its over 18. other than that, your as young as you feel.be with the person for the person, not the age.
2006-08-06 19:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him the reason you said no is because you're married not because he's too young.
2006-08-06 19:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you sleep with him already, because if you did, that was your fault for hurting him.
2006-08-06 19:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Hi T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋