okay so theres this guy, and he called me yesterday and was like seriously...if i had the chance, would you go out with me? If you were my girlfriend, i would buy you all these stuff as he was saying. Well i don't know if he was playing around or was serious. He calls me like at 2 in the morning sometimes and talks about nothing. He took me to the movies with him and his friends. Well I like him and all but im just confused.
2006-08-06 11:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by Dyphya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is there to be confused about? Do YOU like him? If so, why not go out with him? If not, then don't go out with him. And tell him to quit calling you at 2am (that's really weird, kind of creepy, and totally disrespectful).
2006-08-06 11:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For beginners what does it matter what he says he would buy you. Once upon a time (last October) a man worth about 3.2 million dollars came into a store I worked for and tried to date me he brought everything besides a Rolls-Royce to get me but nothing was there. The question is is anything there for you ? Once you have the answer to that wheat her he is serious or not will show in due time.
2006-08-06 19:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could see how it goes..and see what you think. If he buys you things dont let that over shadow his true feelings, money isnt everything and it will not get you through hard times. I would see what i had in common with him, and learn about his family because the family holds the key to how he will end up later and how he will treat the kids. You do not have to be serious about this tho you can just take your time and watch.
2006-08-06 18:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by away right now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not available to talk to after say 10 pm or whatever time you choose but not 2 am. Tell him if he wants to ask you out then he should do so on your terms. He just wants to use you to show his friends that he can get a woman or a date.
2006-08-06 19:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out ask him anyone that calls at three in the morning is thinking of you A LOT ..
2006-08-06 18:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firsat of all how old are you?...
talk to him aboout it, find out if he is seriouse.. tell him you dont want to be playing games.. admit to liking him..lay things on the line.. tell him if he wants to be with you, okay, if hes just leading you on, the f**k off...you seem like a sweet girl you dont need someone who will just play mind games.. good luck.. hope everything works out.
2006-08-06 18:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥PrEcIoUs♥DaYdReAmEr♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to buy the stuff before you become his girlfriend so that you'll know for sure, and to stop waking you up at night because you need your beauty sleep. You need to whip him before he whips you.
2006-08-06 19:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its really good that he introduces you to his friends, and also that he calls you just to talk. I think he really likes you so if you feel the same, go for it. Good luck =)
2006-08-06 18:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Kale<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think you're crazy for letting him call you at 2 am but if that's the way he asked you out, then I'd watch out for him, try it and if he doesn't become like a total jerk then he's good to go, unless you like jerks I doubt you do.
2006-08-06 18:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it the phone calls mean alot i would know but would u rather wait and let him find someone else don't be afraid ther's nothing to be afraid although u think it but there's not gp fpr it and have fun doing it :)
2006-08-06 18:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Smeagle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋