2006-08-06 11:53:59 · 21 answers · asked by Lady D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not before marriage
2006-08-06 11:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-10 05:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely frank - that is up to you, but you need to ask yourself what you want this relationship to be about. If this is someone you want to be with for a while, I challenge you to hold off on sleeping with them for as long as you can -- and the reason being because the longer you aren't sleeping together the more you can focus on building the relationship on the right ideals, and for the right reasons. The minute you sleep with him - it now becomes about the physical aspects of the relationship. Its like trying to build a pyramid - you need to build it from the bottom up (friendship, etc.), not from the top down or build one side. Think of the physicality as one side of the pyramid and as time goes on, you get more and more into it - this again with the understanding that you are wanting to be with him for an extended period of time.
In any case - you really have to be the one to judge when is a good time or not, because in the end you are the only one who has to deal with whatever repercussions may arise from sleeping with him - and no one else. Before you make a choice, I suggest you sit down with yourself and think it out - then sit down with him and talk it out. The best relationships are the ones that can actually sit down and discuss things logically and in a civilized manner.
2006-08-06 19:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by sean_ahlers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually like to adhere to an 8 date rule before thinking about getting into bed with anyone. I am human and can be tempted, but with all of the problems and diseases in this world you want to get to know someone really good before you commit yourself physically with someone. Make sure he or she is clean and that they are not the type to cheat on you. Also by getting to know someone inside and out before sleeping with them makes the sex so much better sicne you come to the bedroom more comfortable around them. :)
2006-08-06 19:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to wait at least a month. But instead of puttin a timestamp, I just wait until I know something more than having sex will come between me and the person. Could take weeks or months.
2006-08-06 18:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have an immediate attraction and the man is a caring sensual, affectionat non-judgmental guy.. [like me] i see now problem with sleeping with someone on the first date.
Some people are more sexual than others and if the attraction is there and the sexual chemistry is good.. then i see that as the basis of a continuing realtionship....
2006-08-06 18:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least a year. I want to be really good friends with them first. Then if the sex turns not so hot, the friendship, which is more important, will carry you through.
2006-08-06 18:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by galacticsleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal choice.
And it kind of depends on the relationship.
If you really care about the person and are completely comfortable in the relationship, go ahead.
2006-08-06 19:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cait_027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to use the three date rule. Which, I'm aware, used to be three dates and kiss him or leave him, but I figure in this day and age it's been updated to sex.
2006-08-06 18:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 months. Thats how long my girlfriend made me wait and i respected her for that. Dont feel like you have to give it up fast. And i know you arent probably into this but waiting till your married isnt bad either.
2006-08-06 18:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by its me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are adult and you have been on a few dates and you two click then why wait. See how the sex is..... If you are religious then wait until you get married
2006-08-06 18:59:12 · answer #11 · answered by Eerin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋