My gf dumped me 2 months ago and i havent been turned on by anything. I'm 19 years old! My sex drive is supposed to be crazy but i gotten hard maybe twice since we broke up and thats because i was thinkin about her. Please tell me other people experience this or am i weird?
2006-08-06 11:53:05 · 14 answers · asked by its me! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that's pretty common. Don't worry, it'll come back.
2006-08-06 11:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems to be a Y chromosome (male) phenomenon. Males are more emotionally fragile and don't spring back as fast as females. I think this is very very common. Females kick *** as far as the emotional life goes. Stop whining about it, dust yourself off, drop that baggage and get back in the game. Have fun with it and realize that people come together and then come apart. Its the history of the universe and not your fault. When its right for both of you, it will happen easily and smoothly, no stress. When it doesn't, let it go, otherwise you won't be open to the real thing when it appears.
2006-08-06 19:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by galacticsleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cause you are hurt right now and confused probably. Just give yourself time to get over things. 2 months isn't very long. If you are still having the same problem in 4 month from now go to the doc.
2006-08-06 18:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Eerin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. You're going through rejection dude and you're not able to handle it. Either that or you really love this girl. Give it another 2 months and if your thingie doesn't salute you in the morning, I think you might want to take some anti-depression pills. If this still doesn't help, pop in a happy-ending movie dude, see what happens.
2006-08-06 19:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually for me, I have had long term relationships... and after acceptance of their being no more of us.... I thought you know I have had the same dayum dick for years, now it is time for me to explore! I did not become a hoe or anything, just needed to experience a couple of different *****!
2006-08-06 18:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've gotten hard twice since being dumped? are you phucking serious? how can you consider yourself a man? maybe you're just starting puberty or something
2006-08-08 08:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. Your mind affects a lot, including your physical impulses. Once you aren't only thinking of her you'll be back to normal. If it gets really bad (thoughts of suicide, etc) get into the doctor.
2006-08-06 19:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Lothario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a psychological problem that is common when you feel an emotional tie to a mate. It will go away as soon as you move on to another woman.
2006-08-06 18:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by puzzle55usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had the opposite affect....I have gotten waaaaaaaaaaaay more horny since I broke up with him.
2006-08-06 19:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude but for a guy, that's totally weird!
2006-08-06 18:56:52 · answer #10 · answered by MissLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋