How should i tell hjim i love him?

Question

Im a little scared to. We got back together after a breakup, and from beeing sore, i convinced myself i didnt love him anymore. but i fell back in love, and im scared to make the first move. How can i be sure that his wounds are heald too?

Answer 1

good luck!!...tell him

Answer 2

After a breakup, emotions run very high. Old feelings, scars, fears, and jealousies reappear. You might also remember what he said or did back then, and it will surely play in to what you are trying to fix now. Try to forgive him, and yourself, for the past mistakes you both made, and talk about it. Communicate honestly, and openly, and vow to start again slow, and truthful. I would definitely not use the "L" word right now. Reconnect with one another first. Rediscover what first attracted you to each other, and build upon that. Lay down bricks of trust, communication, and friendship. The other things will follow. Also, reconnect with yourself. Be your own best friend too.

Answer 3

one of the girls told me:-

" Love can be expressed without words most of the time. It is often through actions that love can be felt.

For example, consider these 2 scenarios:

1. A guy who does not love you but keeps saying that he does love you often. You won't believe him, right? That's because his non-verbal signs are showing and they are often more truthful than verbal ones.

2. A guy who loves you but doesn't say it. Instead, he expresses this love through his actions. But you will know it, because you will feel it on the receiving end.

And eyes, being a window to a person's soul, does work wonders in comunicating one's thoughts to another person.

So, yes. I feel that it will work. However, the other party must be a relatively perceptive person, for I have known a few friends who do not observe another's body language well.

Good luck and god bless! "

Answer 4

Dont say that you love him until the moment is right. For all you know he could be thinking the opposite. Or he could feel the same way.

If you just got back together, wait another month or so, and see how things go. If it seems safe enough to where you can "confess" to something like that, and your sincere, then go ahead. But dont rush into something like that.

Leads to alot of heartbreak.

Answer 5

If your scared to him then your not ready. You'll have to wait until you know for sure that he loves you too. I know you want to know now but if the time isn't right then you might get an answer you don't want. Be patient and let your relationship take its course. It will happen when it happens so don't rush it.

Answer 6

I LOVE YOU
Then run real fast. It will make for a great moment later in life. YOu will both laugh togther if the love is real

Answer 7

write him a letter. tell him what you just told us. write him and leave the letter somewhere for him to find it and read. that way there is no face to face confrontation and you can say what and how you really feel. good luck hun

Answer 8

if you still hurt by what he did, and the fact that you back together honey i would say think it through. you need time to heal before you can do that. you need to love yourself before you can love another. all i can say is GOOD LUCK.hope he appreciate you.

Answer 9

why is it that people always go back to their exes? well It doesn't matter he must have feelings too if he agreed to get back together, so give it a try.

Answer 10

well just ask him how he feel about things lately and if his feelings for you has gone away or just tell him how you feel... yes i know its hard because im tryna do the same thing

Answer 11

Tell him that you love him on a card.Then send it to him or give it to him.Good luck!